@fuckyouiquit I read that to make sure we get the maximum amount we are worth, we need to switch jobs every 4-5 years. Corporations love to cry “No one wants to work” while firing the most loyal and productive employees.
@runthegambit_@TizzyEnt Her OWN mouth and actions lost her her job/career/lively hood. Speaking that way should not be tolerated in any way. She got what she deserved. Consequences.
@ask_aubry I don’t CARE what he was doing up until 1am. The fact that he said “if you weren’t my wife, I’d F you up”, you should have made him sleep on the couch and told him to seek therapy or it’s over. Threats like that one escalate.
@ask_aubry There’s a 16 year age gap between OP and the boyfriend and she’s focusing on racism? DUMP HIM! He’s going to continue to let his mom disrespect you because I’m sure he’s done it to every girlfriend in the past.
@ask_aubry I had an ex who was cheated on by his previous 3 gfs. He punished me for their mistakes and didn’t even let our relationship progress because of his baggage. When I told him I wasn’t going to live like that, he threw a tantrum and I dumped him. Boy bye!
@ask_aubry Heck no! I had an interview where the hiring manager was over an hour late. She was rude the entire time like I was an inconvenience to HER! I was glad I didn’t get a job offer, but disappointed because I wanted to turn it down because of her attitude.
On January 7th, 2025 I shared a video, after I was asked to call UnitedHealthcare from the operating room to answer administrative questions about the patient who was having surgery to treat breast cancer. Despite my efforts, they denied her stay.
UnitedHealthcare didn’t stop at calling me during surgery. Now, they’ve sent me a legal threat—and even worse? They ended up denying my cancer patient’s hospital stay. Exactly what I was afraid would happen.
Staying overnight after major surgery isn’t optional—it’s medically necessary. But UnitedHealthcare decided they know better than the doctors caring for the patient.
When they called me while I was operating, I knew that if I didn’t step out and respond immediately, they might deny her stay—leaving her with a massive bill. So, with another surgeon in the OR, I scrubbed out and called them back. But after all of that? They denied her stay anyway.
And instead of fixing their broken system, they sent me a legal threat for speaking out.
I’m sharing their response in full, letting their words speak for themselves.
Let me be clear: I stand by everything I said. I told the truth. I was honest about what’s happening in our healthcare system. And I will not be silenced by legal threats when it comes to advocating for my patients and my ability to care for them.
Denying an overnight stay that a doctor orders is dangerous. The doctor caring for the patient should be able to make these decisions without delay, pressure, or harassment.
If I don’t speak up, I lose—my integrity, my voice, and the opportunity to make a difference. And while it’s intimidating to receive a letter like this from a company as powerful as UnitedHealthcare, I know where I stand.
I am a woman taking care of women affected by breast cancer. I do this work with all of my heart, and I will continue to speak up for my patients—because they deserve better.
I ask you to follow along, share this story, and have these conversations in your own communities. I know I’m not the only one dealing with this, and real change will take all of us telling our stories and standing up for what’s right.
I’m here for it. Are you?