@new_tems17370@beyoncegarden Omg! It’s new_tems17370!! The one who famously succeeded in life and is not at all miserable! Can we pleaseee hear of your achievements again?
fuck guys omg i was eating lunch in the break room and this new girl walked in and asked "where can i eat my lunch! :D" i was like why would sum1 ask such an obvious question and pointed her to an empty table in the corner like a teacher and 5 mins later now i'm like "oh"
@dazzyjazzy1@AfricanKhaIeesi *And that is not to say that your efforts are as easy as choosing them to be, it is to force yourself through that wall so you can start building habits (even if you can’t, an attempt is admirable for your self preservation). I refused sacrifice in my teens and it shows major
@dazzyjazzy1@AfricanKhaIeesi Tbf, even in that analogy, (assuming) OPs point is you HAVE to learn to live with it… you have to take uncomfortable steps to prevent your life from becoming harder than it is. It’s hard but learn braille, voice apps, ask for help b4 society forces you to. Its for you not them
being autistic is getting told your whole life that you need to start caring what other people think then developing social anxiety and getting told you need to stop caring what other people think
While you’re here? I’m really in need of my epilepsy, thyroid, and diabetes medications while my family tries to get back to work and get our head above water
Parasocial hate is real. Constantly hating on a celebrity doesn’t make you any less parasocial than the people who constantly praise or defend them.
You’re still emotionally invested in a person who doesn’t know you exist… just from the opposite end of the spectrum.
white people quite literally invented the concept of race, with a hierarchy of them placed at the top, so in what world would they ever be victims of racism???? the whole thing is farcical lmao
In literally any other context you would understand a person of colour feeling more accepted around people who look like them than around white people (ESPECIALLY in South Africa???) but when it comes to Tyla everyone wants to switch their brains off
@doubtpointv2 ok this is getting old.
androcentric women definitely exist. androcentric queer women and lesbians can be male centered too. that's the patriarchal world we live in and it's up to everyone to unlearn some things.
stop with "love" deflection. https://t.co/a4jjRJch3U
@102THEM00N @fatherrwethu@RandomoneSa But that’s my point…the same way you don’t identify with those people, I don’t identify with those who are vile against innocent people.
My argument, blame the individuals you wish to condemn, but “all South africans are xenophobic so I’ll be xenophobic” will get you no where.
@102THEM00N @fatherrwethu@RandomoneSa The “who fought who” argument will never have a clear conclusion. Where you place your blame will be countered by where I place mine and vice versa.
Crime is not new to SA, I’m not arguing for xenophobia.
I still place blame on our government for poor security and corruption.
@102THEM00N @fatherrwethu@RandomoneSa And please always address who you need to address. Address the xenophobic, the classist, the racist, the sexist, the homophobic etc
But turning to biased hate for everyone (like those who fought against them for you) only grows the irrationality of the problem