No normal man approaches a woman with a nose ring, leg chain, tattoos, coloured hair or slutie dressing OR alcohol in hand, shisha pipe with serious intentions. There is a stereotype attached to it already. He will have already slut zoned you. He sees sex nothing more.
Anytime a man has to spend ridiculous amounts of money on a woman, it's to cover for his inadequacies e.g lack of confidence, lack of game or erectile dysfunction. It's all rooted in low self esteem.
A woman will get angry at you if she catches you staring at another woman's ass BUT will post her ass on Instagram and call you insecure for wanting her to stop that