Losing a man who never lightened your load, only gave you the bare minimum, and kept you constantly in survival mode wasn’t a loss. it was liberation. you didn’t lose your peaceyou finally got it back.
Just apologize if you did some foul sht. All that flipping it around, being manipulative & acting mad bc someone mad at you when they got every reason to be, is weird asf. Mf swear they grown until it's time to be accountable.
the amount of disrespect you will tolerate when youre in love is actually insane. then one day the blindfold comes off and youre like damn i really let you do all that
Don’t EVER let a nigga guilt-trip you for moving on, talking to somebody new, going on dates, or simply going outside and living your life. 😭 They’ll try to make you feel wrong for moving forward while they’re out here talking to multiple women and fucking multiple women. So you’re supposed to sit around quietly, stay loyal to somebody who ain’t loyal to you, and tolerate the disrespect? NO. 😂 Never make yourself a nigga’s favorite dummy. Choose yourself every damn time. 💯
After certain things happen, you just don't feel the same about some people anymore. No matter who they are to you. It's not hatred. It's not even anger. It's just something shifts. You still talk. You still respond but the warmth isn't the same. The comfort isn't the same. The way you used to look at them, trust them, feel safe with them, it changes without asking your permission.
A ngga will destroy every ounce of trust you had in him, then get irritated because you question sht now. You wanted blind trust while constantly giving me reasons to open my mf eyes.