Most people go into relationships unaware of their childhood trauma & internal wounds. They expect their partner to make them happy and fix the pain.
A partner is not there to fix you.
They’re there to reveal what’s needs healing.
Not everyone wants you to get better.
Sometimes people feel threatened.
Your success or emotional health is a reminder of what they lack.
They benefited from “sick” you.
Heal anyway.
@SimplyMincy Bruh!!! I heard that today in sprint is planning! I asked what would happen when the user tried to make changes they were like “I don’t think they would come back and make changes to this.” I was like “sir…you give the customer way too much credit.”
@SimplyMincy I know this but like some of the stuff said in this thread I’d what I deal with everyday. “Oh my code didn’t cause this bug.” “Can we jus take care of this next sprint?” Me: but aren’t you looking for more work this sprint?