PROCOTACT

A RESEARCHER,WRITER,MESSANGER,AND SOCIAL CRUSADER.
I exhume humanity from the cemetery of ignorance and every form of mental programming. I liberate humanity.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

The harsh truth to inscribe into your cerebral in life are;
1. There is no unconditional love on earth. Even a mother's love is condition by the fact that she gave birth to you. If mothers could love a child more than the other. Mothers sacrifices their children for rituals.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

"If a snake doesn't reveal its nature,children will use it to tie firewood" - An Africans proverb

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

This is why some snakes need to have venom. Make no mistake, the man started it.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

There is a difference between an idle stay at home wife and a wife who combines economic activities with conjugal duties from the comfort of her home. Anyone could earn without reprting to a boss in 21s cent. Traditional women were not 'A FULL TIME JOBLESS SIT AT HOME WIFE'

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

Lebron James was raised by a single mother, she probably worked multiple jobs to make ends meet. That's what influenced him to say he doesn't want a stay at home wife.

And most men today agree with this, because they have been raised in fatherless homes, where they watch their mothers work.

But for any man who was raised in a 2 parent set-up, where the father worked and provided, whilst the mother took care of the house and kids, you'd appreciate the role a stay at home wife does.

The only reason why men today want wives who work is because the economy is messed up, one salary isn't enough. But deep down, no sane man wants to be rich and still have his wife report to some other man in the form of a boss.

Lesson: As a man, make money so you can retire your parents and have your wife home taking care of your bloodline's next generation.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@Shadaya_Knight There is a difference between an idle stay at home wife and a wife who combines economic activities with conjugal duties from the comfort of her home. Anyone could earn without reprting to a boss in 21s cent. Traditional women were not 'A FULL TIME JOBLESS SIT AT HOME WIFE'

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Some of the real questions are:Are they really into each other? Is the man sexually experienced? What does he know about sex education & eroticism? How do they prepare for sex? Does he know that foreplay does not start when the desire arises? OR health issue. There is a lacuna

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

The reason for my posts this morning about virginity and sexual experience comes from a real conversation I had in my DM and wouldn’t want to post the screenshots.

A 35 year old married man reached out to me and was complaining that his wife is not as active in bed as he expected.

According to him, they dated for about three years before marriage and he waited all that time. He also said his wife was a virgin when they got married.

Now he is frustrated. He feels like she is not meeting his needs. He even admitted that he has started seeing another woman on the side, and in his words, that one is more active and more satisfying.

What is missing here is the reality he ignored from the start.

A virgin does not walk into marriage with sexual experience. She learns with time, safety, trust, and communication.

Also, many people carry quiet pressure into marriage. Some are shy. Some are afraid of doing things wrong. Some are dealing with fear, religion, or guilt.

All of that affects how open they are.

Another common issue is expectation built from outside influence. Things like porn, friends talk, and social media can create a false idea that sex should be instant, wild, and perfect from day one.

Real life is not like that.

What he is also not seeing is that comparison destroys intimacy.

Once a partner starts comparing their spouse with someone outside, the relationship already begins to break.

And using a side and secret relationship as a solution does not fix the real problem. It only adds more damage, confusion, and disrespect into the marriage.

If there is a real issue, it should be spoken about. Not replaced with secrecy. Not covered with excuses.

Marriage grows through communication, patience, and learning each other, not shortcuts.

You cannot ask for innocence and at the same time expect experience.

You build it together, or you destroy what you already have.

🤷‍♂️

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@TheOdin_II Some of the real questions are:Are they really into each other? Is the man sexually experienced? What does he know about sex education & eroticism? How do they prepare for sex? Does he know that foreplay does not start when the desire arises? OR health issue. There is a lacuna

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Advance technology

[Sarah @araseb_]

What's coming after artificial intelligence?

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

I have the names of my helpers framed in my home.

[Dele Olawanle @dolawanle]

REMEMBER YOUR HELPERS!

Yesterday, I sent a voice note to Dr. Sunday Adelaja of God Embassy in Ukraine because we haven’t spoken for a while. We were leaving voice notes for each other, so he called me back, and we talked and talked. As the conversation was about to end, I said to him, "Pastor Sunday, I will never forget you for your support for me and my ministry."

He said, “You are always saying this; you are a very grateful person”. I told him I will never forget my humble beginning.

Pastor Sunday Adelaja was the pastor of the biggest church in Europe called, God Embassy. I traveled to Ukraine about 23 times to visit them and other regions, but when our church was just about 2 years old, I invited Dr. Sunday Adelaja to come and preach for us, and he came with his wife and children.
I couldn’t believe it, but he came, he supported us, encouraged us, and also invited me to Ukraine and gave me a platform to preach to 50,000 people or more. He exposed me to a global audience, and I was wondering, which type of man is this? He forwarded my first book, Discover Your Purpose, and he was very, very humble and very helpful.

Over the years, we have become a family. I have seen Pastor Bose as a friend and as my sister from another mother. We are very close, and when Pastor Sunday was having issues with Nigerian Pastors, I traveled to Ukraine to see him personally, one-on-one. I know what I told him as a brother and a friend. When the war in Ukraine began, he moved to Belgium. I went to Belgium to see him. Even this July, I will go and see him again because it’s been a while. What I noticed was that this man helped many people; he helped many pastors and mentored many others.

The moment he had problems, had issues, everyone avoided him, everyone abandoned him, and even some betrayed him. You know, whatever he discussed with them, they told the world, but it did not change what God would do.

You see, loyalty is key in life, to your friends, to your helpers, to your spouses. I see some people: the moment they have issues with their spouse, they go on social media and say what they shouldn't say.

You have friends, and when you have issues, you say what you should not say. It is very, very sad the way people think and behave. Still, it is also a limitation because if you are not able to remain faithful and loyal to friends, to your people who have been there for you when you could not help yourself, you are not mature.

I see it daily on social media: this friend will come and talk badly about his friend… And all that, look, if you have nothing good to say about your friends, keep quiet, and time will get over it.

Pastor Sam Adeyemi did the same thing for me. When Dr. Sunday Adelaja came to us, we were using a hall in a primary school. Dr. Sam Adeyemi, when we got together, you know, I think in 2009, we were using a ramshackle industrial estate. Dr. Sam Adeyemi did not despise my humble beginnings. Still, he came to preach for us at that place. He invited me to preach at Day Star Christian Center, a church with over 25,000 people. You know, they gave me the platform, and that’s why, you see, I will never stop talking about Pastor Sunday Adelaja, and I will never stop talking about Dr. Sam Adeyemi and many people who helped us rise.
And I also want to make this final point in this article: Don’t grow so big that you now talk about those who help you as if they are your equals, or you never acknowledge them to say what they did for you.

Imagine a 30-year-old person who is talking about how a 70-year-old is his friend; he’s my this or that. Yeah, they are your friends, but they are your mentors because they helped you. Say it with your full chest.

Humility will take you very far, Loyalty will take you very far, faithfulness will take you very far, and you will be numbered among the great. Once again, I am grateful to Dr. Sunday Adelaja and Dr. Sam Adeyemi for what they did for me when I was trying to rise.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Absolutely. Lock in to the craft.

[Cheo Hodari Coker @cheo_coker]

My advice? Fuck a deck. I'm all decked out. Write an outline and sit down and write the script.

The average script page is 225 words. Four pages a day for 12 days, you have a television script. Add another fifteen days, you have a feature. And you're not done. Writing is rewriting. Put it away for another week, and come back with new eyes. I'm not saying it will be any good. Not yet. But it's a start.

Not telling you anything I'm not also doing.

If you put all that energy into a deck and it doesn't sell ---and trust me, most don't, all you have is a nice brochure. At least with a spec, you have something to show for it. Something you can build on.

Stop making excuses. Rip the band-aid off. Working full time? Toni Morrison got up at 3:45 am., wrote from 4 to 6, and then took her kids to school, and then edited books full time. And still managed to write Song Of Solomon, the Bluest Eye, and constant other classics while waiting for her shot.

Don't have a computer? Tarantino, Spike Lee, and Stallone all write by hand, which is something I've gone back to. Moleskine and Paper Mate markers. No distractions, you can do it a anywhere, and when you retype, gives you a second bite at the apple.

(Photograph your pages. If you lose your notebook or spill coffee on it, that's all she wrote.)

Don't start with four pages. Start with one. Fifteen minutes -- you spend longer in the shower, brushing your teeth, and scrolling.

I wish I could give you a shortcut, but I can't. Writing sucks. No way around that. If you box, no one else gonna put in the roadwork, skip rope, hit the bag, or get punched in the face for you. That's your job.

Everybody wants a hug, and to be told it's all going to be okay, and I can't tell you that. But what I can tell you is no unwritten script ever gets sold.

As for me? I've got miles to run and pages to hit. Keep going....Always Forward, Forward Always...

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Children should not have access to social media. Modern leadership is a mess.

[Keir Starmer @Keir_Starmer]

We are banning social media access for under 16s.

These days kids must find their feet in a world where technology intrudes into every area of their life.

I just can’t let that go on anymore. So we’re giving children their childhoods back.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@DeanAbbott Because the body keep the score

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

The body keeps the score.

[Dean Abbott @DeanAbbott]

I suspect that when you've formed a deep emotional and physical connection with someone, you never really break it.

You can only ever stop seeing and speaking to that person and suppress your internal sense of that connection.

This is part of the reason society is messed up.

Everyone walking around with unacknowledged and suppressed connections that weigh them down.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@guzu_p We should be able to share views or disagree respectfully.
It costs money (digital gadgets and access to the Internet to read or learn on social media). This platform is a modern book,and there are many who couldn't be here because they couldn't afford it.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

But you publish books in the form of tweets every day on x to educate men about the dark side of women namture and to percolate the wonderful virginity crusade.

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

You would think the seller doesn't want to be rich. Why not read it and become rich?

Why not lead by example?

Don't they know they expose themselves as fools like this?

There's a reason the last time I sat down to read a book, I was in university. It was mandatory in other to pass and graduate.

No amount of intellectual books regardless of who wrote it will ever make me use my money to buy a book.

Reading books has never made anybody a billionaire. If not, every man would be a billionaire today.

If you like, keep falling for this rubbish.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@guzu_p But you publish books in the form of tweets every day on x to educate men about the dark side of women namture and to percolate the wonderful virginity crusade.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@onyekanwelue I need a connection to Chief Dele Momodu. I am a writer with an iminent debut book. I need his searchlight in many aspects so as to orchestrate the success of my debut publication.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Choose a worthy masuline leader with merit,not just an adult with the chromosome of a male reproductive organ.

[hello kitty 🎀 @Imioly]

You’re telling me I should submit to someone just because he’s a man. No leadership skills, emotional intelligence or sufficient funds. Just because I’m a woman and he’s a man? 😹😹😹😹

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

@JOHNHorlbeck @SirJarus But the minimum wage at the time was les than 10k

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

The combinations of agreeableness and concentiousness traits should be prioritized in the selection of a life partner.

[Tai Lopez @tailopez]

Men, more important than beauty, the #1 personality trait to seek in a woman is “agreeableness”.

It breaks down like this:

1. Forgiveness
* How easily someone lets go of anger, resentment, or revenge.
* High: patient, lets things go.
* Low: holds grudges, retaliatory.

2. Gentleness
* How soft, mild, and non-harsh someone is in interactions.
* High: tactful, diplomatic.
* Low: blunt, critical, harsh.

3. Flexibility
* Willingness to compromise versus dominate.
* High: cooperative, adaptable.
* Low: stubborn, argumentative, wants to win.

4. Patience
* Emotional calmness and low irritability.
* High: slow to anger.
* Low: easily frustrated, temperamental.

Select for these 4 personality traits more than looks.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

The fraud perpeteted by telecom providers in Nigeria is at its peak.

[PROCOTACT @Procotact]

Warsan Shire said,
"My alone moments feel so good,i will only have you if you are sweeter than my solitude"

[Viktor Benson @viktorbensonyt]

I enjoy my own company more than when a woman is in my house

Is it only me that feels this way?