You cannot repair a relationship with someone who insists the real problem is always your reaction, never their behavior. They focus on how you spoke, how loud you got, or how emotional you became, while completely ignoring the disrespect, neglect, or hurtful actions that caused your response in the first place. This pattern turns every conflict into your fault. It blocks any chance of genuine healing. Real progress in a relationship requires accountability from both sides.
I had to learn that just because somebody cool with you don't mean they solid with you ! Some people laugh with you, chill with you, act like they down... but still move funny behind the
scenes !
No one really talks about this part.
It’s easy to post verses and cute Bible notes…
But walking with God daily?
That’s spiritual warfare.
That’s losing people.
That’s being tested and tempted constantly.
It’s not easy to be set apart from the world…
but it’s worth it, every single time.
If you’re still choosing God, even when it’s hard… say “still here.”
This lady on TikTok said she stopped praying from a survival place and started praying from a place of power. She said God doesn’t need you begging but he needs us believing! WHEW LORD!
Make sure you don't discount the anointing and calling on your life to try and fit in with people that will never be able to go where you are destined to go. You were created on purpose for a purpose‼️💃 SWEET SLEEP! 😴
I peep EVERYTHING. How you talk to me, how you show up, how you move when things aren’t convenient. I don’t force understanding, I don’t beg adults to act grown, I just adjust. I match effort with effort, energy with energy. My access to you will look like how you show up for me.
Losing respect for someone is a turning point. They say or do something that shifts your perspective, and from that moment on, something feels different. You are not angry, and you do not hold a grudge, but your view of them changes. The trust fades, the connection feels off, and no matter how close they once were, you just cannot look at them the same way again.
I'll never respect somebody who knew I was already going through a lot and still did me wrong. You knew what I was dealing with. You knew what I was tryna heal from. And instead of being there, you played in my face and made it worse. That's the part I'll never forget.