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If you keep only friends who are good for clubs, drinks, hangouts and vibes alone, you will have little time to work on your growth as a person.
You may remain at a spot unable to grow for a long time.
You will only be known in all the bars, clubs and hangout spots with nothing to show for it.
IYLLIYLDNYS.
I advise you young men and even women who want to be grounded, well-rounded, wise, and ahead of your peers, hear this:
Make sure to spend time around people who are older, wiser, and more accomplished than you in different areas of life.
Much of the wisdom, diplomacy, and perspective I developed at a very young age came from interacting with people who were far ahead of me in life experience and understanding.
At 13, I spent time around people in their 40s. At 24, many of the people I associated with were in their 50s and 60s. Even today, I am intentional about the company I keep. I prefer relationships where there is something meaningful to learn.
"Show me your friends, and I will tell you who you are."
If you constantly associate with thieves, even if you never steal, people will perceive you as one of them.
If you hang around five wise people, chances are you will become the sixth.
The people around you shape your thinking, influence your habits, and ultimately affect the direction of your life. Please, choose your circle carefully.
I am giving you this golden information for free, learn while you can.
Love and Light.
My teachings will remain the same and will never change.
That is how you know someone who is truly grounded in his convictions. I am not swayed by trends, applause, pressure, or convenience. My principles remain firm whether they stand alone or among a crowd.
Time is my greatest ally.
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I advise you young men and even women who want to be grounded, well-rounded, wise, and ahead of your peers, hear this:
Make sure to spend time around people who are older, wiser, and more accomplished than you in different areas of life.
Much of the wisdom, diplomacy, and perspective I developed at a very young age came from interacting with people who were far ahead of me in life experience and understanding.
At 13, I spent time around people in their 40s. At 24, many of the people I associated with were in their 50s and 60s. Even today, I am intentional about the company I keep. I prefer relationships where there is something meaningful to learn.
"Show me your friends, and I will tell you who you are."
If you constantly associate with thieves, even if you never steal, people will perceive you as one of them.
If you hang around five wise people, chances are you will become the sixth.
The people around you shape your thinking, influence your habits, and ultimately affect the direction of your life. Please, choose your circle carefully.
I am giving you this golden information for free, learn while you can.
Love and Light.
This girl had just relocated to a new town for work, and she is currently staying with her friend who helped her got the job.
Yesterday, she was told that the landlord had complained that the apartment was meant for one person and that he didn’t want to see her there again. According to the girl, the security man reported her presence and the landlord threatened to send both of them out.
Her friend immediately packed her belongings and placed them outside without giving her much time to figure things out.
I told her that her friend does not want her there again. it’s easier to blame a landlord than to tell someone, “I don’t want you staying with me anymore.”
Whether the landlord truly complained or not, the reality is that once someone has decided they no longer want to accommodate you, the signs become obvious.
May we never find ourselves stranded, and may we always have people who are honest with us, even when the truth is uncomfortable.
You have no business being with a girl who requests and must be sent transportation fare before she comes to see you.
If you can’t afford transportation to come and see me, stay at your place. When I ask you to come see me, it’s better you open up and tell me you are broke and can’t afford the trip instead of requesting that I pay for your transportation outright.
When I invite a woman over, I expect her to pay for her transportation and even get me something while coming, at least fruits. I don’t expect you to come to my place empty-handed. When she is leaving, I will do the needful.
What exactly am I doing with a girl who can’t afford an ordinary transport fare, especially for intra-city movement?