The concept of never enjoying the art of a problematic artist has only led more people to insist clearly problematic artists have never done anything wrong
@tuunbaqussy I have two nalgenes that my brother bought for me about 15 years ago. They're tough as hell and super easy to clean. I've replaced the lids a couple of times, and never had any problems with replacements not fitting right
@FactBasedBanter@AltamiraVT Man this is irrelevant but there's some legit hardline intracommunity discussion on who gets to be transgender vs transsexual. If you ever want to stop being mean to minorities on the Internet I've got some rad queer theory + semiotics reading for you
@thejesterhead9@AltamiraVT Well the problem is that there was a legal standard in Kansas that said "this is the line you gotta cross in order for us to change how we categorize you" and then people following the rules got new IDs and now those people's legal status is fucked *effective immediately*
@the_corvidae Romantic feelings are rarely enough to sustain a romantic relationship, which is why ppl struggle to explain the difference. A romantic relationship is friend love plus romantic love, and some ppl can't imagine like, lvl 10 friend love as equally strong as lvl 7 + lvl 3 romance
@the_corvidae And can involve the tie-in of physical/sexual attraction. I find romantic love to be less stable in general, and less grounded. It can grow to *also* be grounded, but friendship love feels, to me, like love with a certain substance. (3)
@virrals I used a gender neutral nickname for a while as I decided on my new name and ended up noticing the same thing. even though I said it was fine to use either the nickname or new name, my loved ones all switched p quick and correct themselves when accidentally using the nickname
@hellspatisserie As an anarchist in a queer polycule, I think there's a really important difference between your politics constructing your life and your politics stemming from your life. I'm not polyamorous because it's ~praxis~, I just like being in multiple relationships, yknow?
@dalishlavellan I got so mad at how the game lets Gavin off easy that I wrote a rant and got it published on vice, I LOVE seeing shit talk about that rancid man on my tl
@sellenomancy It's so weird. My rook is a short fat nb elf who loves being taller than his dwife. Like, it's possible to make your short elves look like grownups! Do that!!
@SmallPyromancer They're like cats - the less you want them around, the more they like you. She was just the first one to express not wanting them crowding her