So now youβre caught between two survival strategies,
The people pleaser who fears abandonment
And
The self protective outspoken version of you that refuses to be walked over anymore.
The problem is: neither side fully trusts people
The worst part about the grief of losing someone to death is looking for them in places they would normally be at, not finding them there, and realising you will never find them there again.
My sister-in-law always gives the rawest advice. When the conversation shifted to my marriage, she just went, βAll men are the sameβjust pick one and stick with it.β
Truly a romantic.
I'm gonna cry. Just received a call from obgyn residents in a frenzy saying y'all have left something in the patient, there's lma left inside the patient. So I (anaesthesia resident) said that's not possible since the patient was intubated, no lma was used.
Then they're like then maybe, but something is there, so I said then you'll see it outside you can just remove it. They're like no no it's stuck. And they have called everyone, every single anaesthesia resident, consultant, my HOD even!!
So my coJR runs down, asks the patient to open her mouth only to find a dislodged RT which had formed a loop in the posterior oropharynxπ
If this is the state of our future obgyns I don't want to have a childπππ