re: douching discourse
I filmed 40+ studio porn scenes over 3 years, always bottom. In those 3 years, I starved myself, took all kinds of supplements, and always took 1-2.5 hours to fully clean myself out to make sure the shot would be clean.
This is not healthy or normal. Even for a "professional," doing this causes horrible damage to the body.
Nobody needs to prep to bottom like a porn star in their regular sex life.
Shit happens. If your top doesn't understand that, throw him away and find a new one ❤️