I am ready for an incredible new week.
Money, Success and Joy will flow effortlessly towards me this week.
I am ready to receive all of the miracles and magic coming my way this week.
I am always where I need to be and the timing of my life is perfect for me.
I Affirm ✅
My husband divorced me because he caught me cheating. But what was I supposed to do when he stopped taking care of himself, grew a beer gut, and went bald? I'm not attracted to that. He didn't have the wisdom to shut up and work on himself – instead he filed for divorce.
Well, if you want a divorce, then here, take the kids and live however you want. I'm the one who gave birth, so you raise them. But then he wanted child support! I told him: I'll help out when I can. I'd send him like $150
@TheHost_ “Cheating because someone’s appearance changed says more about character than attraction. Marriage isn’t only for the ‘good-looking’ seasons. And refusing responsibility for your own kids after the divorce just makes the situation worse.
Let this sink in:
A non-virgin can cheat on you. A virgin can also cheat on you.
A non-virgin can give you another man’s child through paternity fraud. A virgin can also give you another man’s child.
A non-virgin can make a very good wife and mother. A virgin can also make a very good wife and mother.
A non-virgin can make a terrible wife. A virgin can also make a terrible wife.
A non-virgin can divorce you and take half your assets. A virgin can also divorce you and take half your assets.
A non-virgin can have a high libido that you cannot satisfy. A virgin can also have a high libido that you cannot satisfy.
A non-virgin can destroy you for cheating on her. A virgin can also destroy you for cheating on her.
A non-virgin can be faithful for life. A virgin can also be faithful for life.
A non-virgin can be manipulative and disrespectful. A virgin can also be manipulative and disrespectful.
A non-virgin can bring heavy emotional baggage and drama into your life. A virgin can also bring heavy emotional baggage and drama into your life.
A non-virgin can be lazy, entitled, and financially irresponsible. A virgin can also be lazy, entitled, and financially irresponsible.
Vet ruthlessly for values, behavior, and consistency because virginity or experience is not a guarantee to a blissful marriage.
Above all, love God.
@GloriousGod01 This is why maturity, character, discipline, and values matter more than just someone’s past. Virginity alone doesn’t guarantee loyalty, peace, wisdom, or a successful marriage.
Let this sink in:
A non-virgin can cheat on you. A virgin can also cheat on you.
A non-virgin can give you another man’s child through paternity fraud. A virgin can also give you another man’s child.
A non-virgin can make a very good wife and mother. A virgin can also make a very good wife and mother.
A non-virgin can make a terrible wife. A virgin can also make a terrible wife.
A non-virgin can divorce you and take half your assets. A virgin can also divorce you and take half your assets.
A non-virgin can have a high libido that you cannot satisfy. A virgin can also have a high libido that you cannot satisfy.
A non-virgin can destroy you for cheating on her. A virgin can also destroy you for cheating on her.
A non-virgin can be faithful for life. A virgin can also be faithful for life.
A non-virgin can be manipulative and disrespectful. A virgin can also be manipulative and disrespectful.
A non-virgin can bring heavy emotional baggage and drama into your life. A virgin can also bring heavy emotional baggage and drama into your life.
A non-virgin can be lazy, entitled, and financially irresponsible. A virgin can also be lazy, entitled, and financially irresponsible.
Vet ruthlessly for values, behavior, and consistency because virginity or experience is not a guarantee to a blissful marriage.
Above all, love God.
One of the biggest risks of eating out, especially for buka.Most mama put go for the 'breaking' tomatoes as they are very much cheaper...
The toxins these spoilt tomatoes carry are very dangerous - heat doesn't destroy them, so cooking them won't make them safe for consumption.
Stay safe out there
The woman who helped my mother during hard times was the same woman secretly destroying our family.
She used to bring food every Sunday. She paid my WAEC fees once. She even called me “my daughter.” When my father suddenly changed towards my mother, everybody blamed stress.
The insults increased. The late-night calls increased. The fights became daily. One afternoon, I went to deliver food to my dad’s office without informing him.
I met him inside the car with that same “family friend.” What broke me wasn’t even the cheating.
It was hearing her say: “Your wife is too local for your level now.”
That woman still attended our family meetings pretending to care. My mother never recovered emotionally from that marriage even till now, despite all the therapies and all the money that we the children have spent to get her to be better.
After the secret leaked, nothing remained the same in the house again.
My mother stopped talking too much. The cheerful woman everybody knew slowly disappeared. She became quieter every day.
Family meetings started happening almost every week. Some people blamed my father privately but acted neutral publicly. Others begged my mother to “endure” for the sake of the marriage.
The woman denied everything at first, even with evidence staring everybody in the face. But eventually, too many things stopped adding up.
My father became defensive and angry anytime the issue came up. The peace in the house completely died.
Neighbors started noticing the tension. Relatives began picking sides. The embarrassment alone was enough to destroy my mother emotionally.
In the end, trust never returned to that family again.
That experience changed the way I see people forever. Now, my mama don get “skoin-skoin” because of this matter.
Since then, I became careful of people who do too much pretending. Not everybody helping you actually loves you genuinely.
@AdageorgeA And honestly, the saddest part is how society often tells women to “endure” even when their spirit is already dying inside.
Your mother may never fully return to who she used to be, but I hope she finds peace little by little.
@AdageorgeA What broke your mother wasn’t just the cheating… it was the betrayal wrapped in fake kindness. 💔
Some people don’t destroy families from outside; they destroy them while smiling, helping, and pretending to care. That’s why this kind of pain cuts deeper.
The woman who helped my mother during hard times was the same woman secretly destroying our family.
She used to bring food every Sunday. She paid my WAEC fees once. She even called me “my daughter.” When my father suddenly changed towards my mother, everybody blamed stress.
The insults increased. The late-night calls increased. The fights became daily. One afternoon, I went to deliver food to my dad’s office without informing him.
I met him inside the car with that same “family friend.” What broke me wasn’t even the cheating.
It was hearing her say: “Your wife is too local for your level now.”
That woman still attended our family meetings pretending to care. My mother never recovered emotionally from that marriage even till now, despite all the therapies and all the money that we the children have spent to get her to be better.
After the secret leaked, nothing remained the same in the house again.
My mother stopped talking too much. The cheerful woman everybody knew slowly disappeared. She became quieter every day.
Family meetings started happening almost every week. Some people blamed my father privately but acted neutral publicly. Others begged my mother to “endure” for the sake of the marriage.
The woman denied everything at first, even with evidence staring everybody in the face. But eventually, too many things stopped adding up.
My father became defensive and angry anytime the issue came up. The peace in the house completely died.
Neighbors started noticing the tension. Relatives began picking sides. The embarrassment alone was enough to destroy my mother emotionally.
In the end, trust never returned to that family again.
That experience changed the way I see people forever. Now, my mama don get “skoin-skoin” because of this matter.
Since then, I became careful of people who do too much pretending. Not everybody helping you actually loves you genuinely.
@oluebubewrites True from the story, it sounded more like emotional humiliation and frustration than physical assault.
But even without physical violence, publicly tearing down someone who’s supporting you emotionally and financially can still hurt deeply. 💔
@Belbeljum Peace of mind and a clean conscience will always be worth more than dirty money.
Small honest money can grow with pride, but fraudulent wealth comes with fear, shame, and consequences.