Delayed Gratification makes sense when are completely certain that whatever you are trying to achieve will end up being successful.
I have always subscribed to the concept of periodic gratification. You work extremely hard the week then are enjoying at least a day in the week.
One Great Character Development Arc - Getting addicted to something and then getting over it through sheer will power.
By the end of it, you will have overcome one of the greatest battles of life. And, You will come out a completely changed man.
Once in a while, I like to pop back. To observe things, to satisfy a deep longing in my heart whether if this space has turned back to what it is previously. Yet, I am left with disappointment.
Politics is in everything it's almost impossible to escape.
A person who desires to be ascend to any top hierarchial-position in life must invest some time to understand and influence political decisions in his favor.
This is not about state politics.
You Are A Social Creature,
That Likes To Spend Time With People Who
Think Like You
Act Like You
Believe The Same Things As You, i.e. High in-group preference.
Diversity is void when the in-group preference kicks in.
The Kashmir issue is what happens when you give the mic to politically incorrect but ideological true believers.
Diversity of culture will never work in any nation.
People will always have an in-group preference which is heavily influenced by the ideology.
I have spent years learning and understanding history, politics and nature of power.
History testifies every time media picks up a topic, it is always pre-planned by those higher echelons in society.
"You are always told what you must attention to."
The nature of world is such that the lesser you pay attention to someone or something, the more universe tries to get your attention provoking you with the abundance of that very thing.
And
Once in a while, you will encounter weaker enemies (problems of life) that you found hard to beat at first, but can knock them out in one sweep
It is then you will realize all of this, was worth it.
If you play life like a video:
- Set ways to level up
- Unlock different skills in the skill tree
- Explore the unknown
- Take risks to ascend yourself
Just like a Video game;
You will eventually turn yourself into a character that is formidable
You will subconsciously communicate this to other people around
Causing men to admire you and Women to be attracted towards.
In the rural parts of India,
You will find true economic reality, if matters of lifestyle and living standards are considered.
There are still people in India (roughly around 50%) that struggle to make $100/month.
People live in a bubble.
India is not progressing at rate as you think it is, you apparently think because you live in tier 1 city where services are almost close to 1st world.
You will get a reality check as soon as visit rules parts of India.
Self-employment is much better compared to modern day slavery.
However, it requires you to be capable of inflicting self-sacrifice and discipline... which far more difficult than you think.