ππ€ πAlt. Goth. Chronically sarcastic. Disabled. ADHD. Autismπ€π
π€πBookworm, chaos goblin, dog mum.ππ€
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@Hislilcutie01 π€π€ girl same! But nope it just gives me the ick
Or when people dm me saying theyβre in their 20βs and not sure how to feel about my videos cause of my age.
I needed to know this why exactly?
I actually picked up a water bottle today, the question isβ¦..
Will I drink 2 litres a day? Potentially if itβs iced coffee or juice, but plain water? Nope Iβd rather be Satanβs sub before any water passes these lips
The Independent Sub
Not everyone struggles with surrender because they want control.
Some struggle because receiving care feels more exposing than giving it.
For some people, kneeling is easy.
Asking for reassurance is hard.
Taking an order is easy.
Admitting they're scared isn't.
The vulnerability isn't always in the submission.
Sometimes it's in being seen.
Seen beyond the role.
Seen beyond the competence.
Seen as a whole person rather than the version of yourself you've learned to present to the world.
For some people, that's the most intimate part of all.
Because what if they donβt like what they see?
@subbylilly_@Sir_Garnet13 Ok so I could have phrased it better, but my point is it is dangerous having people giving themselves a honorific without having the knowledge of safe words etc.
50 shades was about abuse & control