All is fair in love & war—until the war is inside your living room.
Ramon & Mirabel spent 5 years proving that love has no religion. Now, it’s time to tell their parents. In a clash of cultures where "tomorrow" isn't promised, can 2 souls rewrite a story centuries in the making?
Yeah! I remember a deal I was chasing last year February, it was worth 8bn and then the lawyer of the property owner screwed everything up.
Clients were willing and ready, nwoke'm provide us with the title documents make we do search ó na koro'm bullshit!
That was how I lost out.
@Ifyyodunze Yeah! I remember a deal I was chasing last year February, it was worth 8bn and then the lawyer of the property owner screwed everything up.
Clients were willing and ready, nwoke'm provide us with the title documents make we do search ó na koro'm bullshit!
That was how I lost out.
Yeah! I remember a deal I was chasing last year February, it was worth 8bn and then the lawyer of the property owner screwed everything up.
Clients were willing and ready, nwoke'm provide us with the title documents make we do search ó na koro'm bullshit!
That was how I lost out.
In their minds, you're no different from those whose mistreatment you once tolerated or even encouraged.
Children learn more from what we permit than from what we preach. Every behavior we excuse today becomes a lesson they may apply tomorrow—perhaps to us.
Whatever you enable—even unwittingly—has a way of coming back to bite you, sooner or later.
If you teach your children, whether by words or by silence, that it's acceptable to disrespect or abuse an elderly person, don't be surprised when they eventually treat you the same way...
Eventually, a part of you gets tired of making the same emotional journey, so it stops reacting with the same intensity. Not because the need disappeared, but because constantly feeling it became exhausting.
The dangerous thing about numbness is that it can look like peace from the outside. It isn't tranquility; it's a tactical shutdown. It's your emotional circuit breaker tripping because the system is operating beyond safe capacity.
That's how numbness masquerades as acceptance.
From the outside, a person looks calm, measured, unaffected. But internally, it can feel less like arriving at peace and more like a city enforcing a blackout to keep the entire power grid from collapsing.
That distinction matters because it changes what comes next.
Being numb is a ludicrous feeling.
It's what happens when disappointment has visited the same place too many times. At first, you feel hurt. Then frustrated. Then angry. Then you explain. Then you hope.
Peace doesn't need fixing. A tripped breaker does. Left unattended, the system can remain offline long after the danger has passed.
Giving yourself permission to simply be—even if that "being" feels a little blank right now—is sometimes the only way to rest.
And if all you can manage is to sit in that blankness, that's okay. Not every season is for feeling deeply. Some seasons are for recovery. The goal isn't to force the lights back on. It's to give the system enough time that, when they return, they don't flicker.
And if all you can manage is to sit in that blankness, that's okay. Not every season is for feeling deeply. Some seasons are for recovery. The goal isn't to force the lights back on. It's to give the system enough time that, when they return, they don't flicker.
Being numb is a ludicrous feeling.
It's what happens when disappointment has visited the same place too many times. At first, you feel hurt. Then frustrated. Then angry. Then you explain. Then you hope.
Peace doesn't need fixing. A tripped breaker does. Left unattended, the system can remain offline long after the danger has passed.
Giving yourself permission to simply be—even if that "being" feels a little blank right now—is sometimes the only way to rest.