@xoticbutterflyy@BussyKeaton I would describe myself as sex-neutral. So nowadays I don’t actively seek out sex but before I realised I wasnt actually attracted to people, I could enjoy the feelings of sex. Some asexuals might also have a higher libido and seek it out more than I do
@xoticbutterflyy@BussyKeaton Er no, I don’t rlly WANT to sleep with people because I’m not attracted to them. I have slept with people because I kind of assumed that’s just what people do anyway. I didn’t mind the experiences, although I have to close my eyes and not be actively involved to enjoy it.
@VAMichaelaLaws Yep, for example I am a sex-positive asexual. I am never sexually attracted to or aroused by the presence/appearance of another person but I can be aroused by the way they touch me. As long as I close my eyes it can be quite enjoyable lmao