your SPOUSE is the one who’ll sit beside you when your PARENTS DIE. who’ll hold your hand through CHILDBIRTH. who might have to BATHE YOU if you’re ever too sick to stand. this isn’t just about BUTTERFLIES or DATE NIGHTS. it’s about choosing someone who SHOWS UP... in GRIEF, in MESS, in UNCERTAINTY. so no, LOVE ALONE isn’t enough. COMMITMENT, MATURITY, and the ability to ENDURE life’s ugly parts... that’s what sustains a MARRIAGE. because when life gets PAINFULLY REAL, ROMANCE won’t carry you... CHARACTER will. and the truth is, FOREVER is only possible with someone who knows how to STAY when it’s HARD TO LOVE
if you choose A WORKING WOMAN, you must accept that she CANNOT manage a house full time by herself. if you choose A HOUSEWIFE who can take care of and manage the household completely, you need to accept that she DOES NOT MAKE MONEY and you will have to provide for everything. if you choose a SUBMISSIVE WOMAN, you should accept that she DEPENDS on you to lead. if you choose to be with a STRONG WOMAN, you should accept that she is STUBBORN and has her own thoughts and ways
Hindu nationalist sympathy for an Indian tourist who survived the Kashmir attack turns to outrage when she says that two Kashmiri Muslims helped her and showed her kindness after the ordeal, because she dared to say anything good about any Muslims at all. See the replies.
Trauma that happens to a child does not go away with time. It's not something a person stops dwelling on because they're no longer a child. Trauma shapes the way a person (at any age) relates to their environment. Instead of suggesting someone respond better, make the abuse stop.
Some internalize their pain, struggling with anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem. Others externalize their trauma, acting aggressive and seeming uncaring, and I'm not saying she is right, but stop blaming her just because she doesn't empathize with your favorite character.
I’ve seen some tweets criticizing Aadhya, calling her selfish and heartless, and comparing her trauma response to other characters. It’s important to remember that not every traumatic person behaves the same way.
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