Having a job and living alone is such a crazy combo. You go home, shower, eat, scroll through your phone, and stay silent until you talk to someone at work the next day.
Can we all please normalize letting people be until they feel like being bothered again! yes i'm on social media, yes i see your calls and texts! I just don't feel like talking/texting…I will respond when my human interaction radar is reset. Until then.…LET ME BE!
Being financially comfortable is enough for me. I don't even have to be the richest, I just want to always be able to eat what I want, go where I want, buy what I want, pay my bills on time, and give my future kids a good life. ❤️
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior & getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until its time to take accountability.
If you knew how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'd understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
Adulthood comes with responsibilities, battles, and seasons where people have to pull back to take care of themselves.
It’s not always about you, sometimes your friends are just fighting their own wars quietly.
The best friendships aren’t measured by daily texts or constant hangouts, but by the loyalty and understanding that remain even in silence.
Give grace, don’t keep score, and remember that a real bond can survive distance and time.
Instead of assuming you’ve lost someone, reach out and remind them you’re still in their corner.
Adult friendships require grace. People are busy. People are healing. People are growing. People are taking time for self-care just like you. Don’t mistake less communication for less love. Check in, not out. 🩶
I highly recommend having talks with yourself regularly. Before you call someone for advice talk it through with yourself first. You have most of the answers and they don’t need to be validated by others.