Sis! There’s a MAN out there that’s on everything you on, wanna go places with you, text back in a timely manner. Wants to see you succeed, wanna see you happy, love your energy & adds to it.. simply just loves everything about you. STOP wasting time & energy on people you gotta force to do those things. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE ✨💕
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
A cheating nigga already foul… but the WORST type is that “good guy” nigga who…. be acting solid, talking right, moving patient… whole time he a whole liar behind the scenes manipulative, lust driven, and quick to flip the script like HE the one hurt when he get exposed. Them undercover ones be the most dangerous fr cause you don’t see it coming until it’s too late.
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
I’m tired of people who put their trauma infront when going into a relationship, you should have healed to the point of being open before even considering one
Stop projecting your past experiences on your present partner, give them a chance to show you who they are
If it works out, cool, if it doesn’t, also cool, but don’t sabotage it before it blossoms, you’ll regret it
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
When I leave people alone, I genuinely think I’m giving them what they want. It’s no way you did what you did & expected me to believe you still wanted me around.
The obsession with wanting people to regret losing you is insane. You’re not that special. People lose people every day and keep living. Heal from the ego that needs to be missed, chased, or mourned to feel valuable. Your job is not to become somebody’s punishment. Your job is to grow, move on, and build a life so full that their regret is no longer your concern.