Consistency is rare.
Most operate on a seasonal cycle
Activating just in time for a celebration and deactivating once the spotlight shifts.
They reappear to wish you well only because their own countdown has started. Once their day passes, the silence returns.
Half of the time, the “peace” a lot of men ask for when they talk about wanting a partner that brings peace is silence and acceptance when they misbehave or act disrespectfully.