You need to be viciously spreading affogato propaganda. The girls don't know what's for dessert? Affogato. Not hungry enough for a meal? Affogato. It's Sunday morning? Affogato. You need to keep ordering affogatos until they become an integral part of menu architecture.
A safe man enters your life and loves you the right way. No manipulation. No side chicks. No half-hearted love. No lies. No inconsistency, and no mind games. Just showing up and nurturing the woman you are, while encouraging the woman you're becoming.
Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You can express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond, and they patiently hold a safe space for you.
Working from home protocols: Being a developer where every day is like Sunday except the mail arrives early and everyone expects you to be available every waking moment.