A narcissist doesn’t love you. They love your access. They love your energy, your empathy, your effort — but they don’t value it. They study you, mirror you, charm you… all just to get what they want. To them, people aren’t people — they’re supply. A means to feel important. A backup plan. A safe haven for when life humbles them and they need a place to hide.
They’ll cry about childhood wounds and tell you their trauma made them this way — but when you offer them healing, support, or therapy? They resist. Because healing would mean taking accountability, and narcissists fear accountability. They live in cycles of chaos and blame. They know exactly what they're doing — they just don’t care enough to change it.
You can pour every ounce of love, compassion, and loyalty into them… and they will still betray you behind your back, all while blaming you for their mess. They'll manipulate your emotions, invalidate your feelings, then gaslight you when you try to hold them accountable. They are never satisfied, because deep down they’re not seeking love — they’re seeking control.
Being with a narcissist is like drowning while they watch you and ask why you’re not smiling. It’s mentally exhausting, emotionally destructive, and spiritually draining. And when you're finally empty? They'll act like you're the crazy one for needing to be refilled.
So if you’re dealing with one, hear this loud and clear: you can’t fix them. You can’t save them. You owe yourself freedom, peace, and healing. Walk away before you forget who you are trying to prove your worth to someone who doesn't even know how to love.
Protect your heart. Reclaim your power. You deserve real love, not manipulation masked as connection.
You know what the problem is?
9 out of 10 people would be willing to swim across an ocean for you, yet you'll drown yourself for the one person who wouldn't even step into the water for you.
never put me in a situation
where i have to show you how heartless i can be. i'm a soft person, i'm kind, i care too much, and i forgive even when it hurts. i give second chances because i believe people can do better, but even someone like me has limits. if you keep hurting me, if you keep disrespecting me, something in me will change. i will stop caring, i will stop trying, and i will not beg for your attention or explain how much it hurts. i will just walk away, and when i do, you will realize you lost someone who truly cared. so do not take my kindness for granted, because once i am done, there is no going back.
I rebuke every spirit of entitlement around me. May I be surrounded by people who value respect, gratitude, integrity, and mutual honor. Not everyone is entitled to my time, energy, access, or resources.I choose wisdom in my relationships, discernment in my decisions, and peace in my circle.
I really gotta stop allowing undeserving… confused… naive… thoughtless and mindless people near me. It just doesnt work. Simple ppl belong with SIMPLER ppl.