I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
Just apologize when you know that you fckd up. All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you, when they have a legit reason to be, is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable.
the intimacy of sleeping together, but not in a s*xual way. feeling the warmth of their body hugging you so tight against you. the synchronized breathing. the sleepy half-kisses. feeling safe and protected. then waking up next to them and realizing how much you love them.
Check in with your partner, ask how they slept, how their day’s going, how work was, what’s on their mind. Notice when they’re quiet or sensitive and ask why. Ask what they want to eat, where they want to go. Make it a habit to show up. Never let them feel overlooked, unseen, or unheard.
s-x is a plus, but I want to feel beautiful, wanted, loved, & appreciated. I want to be in love freely with mutual understanding that we are on a mission to keep love alive. I want to never go to bed mad. I want conversations, communication, fun, & unconditional love.😩
I do not handle hurt well at all and I do not like who I become when I am hurting. That's why I really don't like being mistreated or played with. If you aren't genuine, don't even bother me, Just move around.
When a man doesn’t want you anymore, he won’t always say it, he’ll show it. Through silence, distance, and a shift in how he treats you. Suddenly, you’re too much. Your presence irritates him, not because you changed, but because he stopped trying.
He won’t leave. He’ll just wait for you to get tired enough to walk away. Not every man says, “I don’t love you.” Some just make you feel unwanted until you believe it yourself.
A man who loves you will make you feel chosen.
A man who doesn’t, won’t.