In a few years from now, if and when she gets out of this situation, she will cringe and loathe herself so bad for all that she endured and all that she allowed herself to.
Until then, I wish her the very best 👌
“Please do not arrest him, his mother doesn’t like me, it’ll seem as if I’m the problem,” says the 18-year-old Ebonyi girl, a victim of alleged domestic violence, after activist @HarrisonBbi18 told her he would call the police to arrest her Anambra-born husband for physically
Sibling violence is not “normal” fighting oh. Once someone is choking, breaking doors and carrying knife it’s best that the police get involved.
Why do some families find it so hard to caution badly behave sons who bully or physically attack their sisters? Is the avoiding confrontation with your son more important than the safety and wellbeing of your daughter?
“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
I killed a man!
And no I’m not sorry, because if I didn’t he would have killed me first.
He slapped me, like he had done many times before, only this time I could feel death closer as I struggled to breathe.
Then came the punches,
I killed a man!
And no I’m not sorry, because if I didn’t he would have killed me first.
He slapped me, like he had done many times before, only this time I could feel death closer as I struggled to breathe.
Then came the punches,
I just feel tired.
I stare at the now disfigured body.
Till we meet again my beloved husband.
I can feel my head spinning, the side of my belly where the fork pierced me is bleeding a lot.
I’m dizzy, the room is swaying, I can’t see.
Oh well, this might be it.