As a result of ADHD, all my motivation is external. I’m motivated by spite, pressure, last minute deadlines, suffering, fear, proving my point, etc. If my world isn’t about to fall apart, I’m chilling. So, unfortunately all my lessons are learned the hard way lmaoooo
I believe in forgiveness and giving people grace, but I deeply believe that everyone knows what they’re doing. So while forgiveness is on the table, reconnection and re-establishing a relationship is not. You did what you did knowing how it would impact me & that’s enough for me
Because no amount of "I love you" can erase the fact that you looked at my worth,weighed it against your urge and picked the urge. Cheating isn’t a mistake,it’s a decision. A deliberate, selfish act made while knowing exactly who it would hurt.