Under the APC, all the talents and abilities of the Nigerian youth, has for the past 11 years been channeled towards ADJUSTING to hardship. Adjusting to literally everything everyday.
Adjusting to new government policies
Adjusting to arbitrary rent increments
Adjusting to unexplainable NEPA bills
Adjusting to incessant increments in fuel prices
Adjusting to arbitrary charges of network providers, etc
Literally everything. No progress. Stagnation at best. He doesnโt even realise this cos he has been busy adjusting and surviving the new day.
This is how slowly APC has been killing us. Vote it or watch it cruise to another arbitrary win at the elections and watch 8 more years of your life dedicated towards adjusting.
Most Nigerians are supposed to be much higher than where they are now. APC was the weapon fashioned against them.
@QueensScents i wan sharply block you as i see say na woman.. but since you entertain neo, i might as well entertain your thought process (it gets a point, donโt you feel like a burden depending on someone? ) maybe you donโt have that guilt seeming youโre the dependent gender
Again...
If 3 friends gather money to start up a goat business... They won't fail.
After 4-5 year's of being consistent all 3 will quit their job no matter the pay and focus on the Farm. It's very lucrative.
Why rush to marry when you 3 can invest that funds mutually...?
E get why e dy be like say I dy vex extra when it comes to the topic of irresponsible parenting.
You go see 4 year old girl dy hawk pure water.
Some things are just unacceptable.
Na irresponsible parenting dy make Igbo women see innocent children to abuse.
Adults are supposed to know and do better. If you don't have the resources to raise them and properly plan for their future, TF are you bringing them here for and expect VDM to do your job for you?.
I wouldn't have it any other way.๐
The female also gave birth to two males so I will be getting a push gift for it by building a pen for them.
If to say na females e born, I for leave them outside make rain and sun dy beat them.
That "retaliation" and subsequent never-ending escalation is itself one of the goals of this global culture war psy-op bullshit that is being pushed on American-owned social media platforms like this one.
The end point of the infinite mutual escalation where the women are insufferable, blue-hair-nose-ring caricatures and the men are equally insufferable, reactionary Andrew Tate caricatures is that our society turns into Japan or South Korea with their "4B" and "Lie Flat" movements where the men and the women physically hate each other so much that they've literally stopped having sex with each other and both populations are set to go extinct within a century.
We are Africans. That fight is not our own. We are the planet's youngest, second biggest and fastest-growing continental population. We are demographically destined to be the dominant power of the 2nd half of the 21st century and beyond. Civil war between African men and women does not serve that ambition and it doesn't help our place in the world at all.
Since as African men we can't control how African women respond to the pseudo-feminism western psy-op being pushed on them, what we can control is our reaction to them. The single greatest thing we can do as men to restore the balance and end this imported civil war is to STOP ENGAGING WITH PSEUDO-FEMINISTS
Stop ragebaiting and being ragebaited by them, stop responding to their social media engagement bait, stop arguing with them, stop debating with them, and above all else, STOP DATING, MARRYING AND SLEEPING WITH THEM. You guys are obsessed with them even though you won't admit it. They absolutely live rent free inside your heads, and many of you are possessed with the dream of "changing", "rescuing" or "taming" one. Let. That. Dream. Die. The reason they continue to wield so much destructive power despite not holding any meaningful economic or political power is because YOU ARE THE ONES EMPOWERING THEM.
Leave. Them. Alone.
There are roughly 800 million women on this continent. Even if these caricatures have infected the majority of that number with their self destructive ideas, you still have the power to determine the final outcome by developing the self discipline to learn how to control who you choose to reward with your time, your attention, your money, your commitment and your penis. If it becomes clear that they are not being rewarded with those things which you are currently deluging them with, nobody will have to tell them to fundamentally reexamine their worldview.
This is one of the ultimate levels of manhood - leading your society by weaponising your silent, deliberate actions instead of doing Battle of the Yappers on the internet with women whose primary life skill is yapping. Stop doing online power tussles with women! It's very unmasculine and even women find it unattractive.
Weaponise your behaviour and your silence! Not your words! Leave them to face their yapping, and focus on your deliberate actions. You're men, not broiler hens! Stop clucking!
Before you let white people gaslight you into saluting them for ending slavery, ask yourself if you are truly FREE. Because you are certainly not.
They still control your resources and labour.
The United States has a Right of First Refusal over Nigeriaโs minerals. Is that what freedom looks like?
They devalue your currency through their institutions such as the World Bank and the IMF, export their production cost, and capitalize on your cheap labour to sustain their economy.
They install governments that make your countries a living hell, so you can abandon your dreams and migrate to slave for them.
If thatโs your idea of freedom, then you need a psychiatric evaluation.
A few days ago, my friend and I were having a discussion about marriage. One thing led to another, and then I told him something that shocked him. I told him that before my wife and I got married, whenever the topic of polygamy came up, I always told her that I would marry more than one wife.
As a man, if you come from a religion or culture that permits polygamy, read this carefully.
Never promise your wife that she is the only woman you will ever marry. Never. Even if you genuinely have no plans to marry more than one wife, donโt make that promise. Tell her that you will/may marry more than one wife in the future.
I will explain the philosophy behind this.
There are many reasons why you might consider taking another wife in the future, even when you had no such plans years earlier. I will not be going into that but just know that LIFE HAPPENS.
If the need ever arises and you have already promised your wife that she will be the only woman you will ever marry, you may find yourself creating an unnecessary drama. A promise is a promise. It is meant to be kept, not broken.
However, if you both already understand that you may one day consider the possibility of taking a second wife, the situation will be different. Of course, she may not like it. If I were in her position, I wouldnโt want it either. But the road to acceptance would likely be easier and smoother because she already knows that your religion or culture permits it. She also knows that you communicated this possibility to her beforehand, and she chose to proceed with the marriage with that understanding. It wouldnโt come as a complete shock to her.
If she is the type of woman who, under no circumstances, would accept the addition of another wife, you would have discovered that during courtship, allowing both of you to have an honest conversation and reach an understanding before getting married.
It is true that your religion or culture permits polygamy, but it is equally true that your wife is a human being entitled to her personal feelings, preferences, and decisions.
Having this understanding between yourselves before getting married could save you a lot of unnecessary stress in the future.
This is my personal philosophy.
Sense or nonsense?