I fear the body really does keep the score cause every year late summer I start getting all weird and sad and it takes me like a week of being like “what the hell is wrong with me?!” before my brain remembers it’s because something bad happened thirteen years ago.
Spent the day at the cinema with Femi. Went from The Odyssey, grabbed some dinner, then straight into Spider-Man. Couldn’t think of a better way to spend a day.
To start a new relationship or meet a new person? You can meet a new person the very same day. In fact, seconds after your breakup. You can then start a relationship when you’ve confirmed values and intent are aligned.
if i ever got into a heated argument more than once with someone, i’m already thinking of ways to let go of that relationship/friendship. i do not like stress. frequent arguments abi conflict are a clear indication that we are not compatible.
built over time? yes. repair of conflict? not necessarily.
i need us to unclench from this idea that turmoil is a feature of relationships. you can have good + intimate relationships that are completely free of discord.
totally unrelated but seeing her being on her phone the whole time they’re talking, i can see why ppl dnt like when i do it to them omg i wont b doing that no more 😭
@realtundeyoung@Wizarab10 It’s the approach not because they are good at their work but the method risking everyone life not following protocol,getting obsessed with the criminal