SEXY HOBBY 101
Do you have a sexy hobby?
• surfer
• beach volleyball player
• salsa/ballroom dancer
• triathlete
• singer-songwriter
• musician
• DJ
• bartender
• world traveler
• party thrower or promoter
• photographer
• visual artist
• amateur chef who hosts dinner parties
• personal trainer
• ski, golf, tennis player or instructor
• yoga instructor
• sailing instructor
• keynote speaker
• stand up comic
• city tour guide
• hiking expert or hiking group organizer
• poet or writer who reads his work at open mics
A sexy hobby is fun activity where you can display your talents and skill to a constant new supply of women
KEY POINTS
1-You need to be displaying your talent in front of groups of people. Being a poet but never reading your poems at an open mic won't help you meet new people. Being skilled at cooking but never hosting dinner parties also won't help you meet new people
2-The better you are at your sexy hobby, the more powerful your sexy hobby will be at attracting women. If you're so good that you're teaching the hobby to others, or people are paying to see you, that is even more impressive
3-If you're a beginner, expect your sexy hobby to have low power. You need to get better! Keep on practicing and improving over the months and years and having this sexy hobby will pay off
4-Your sexy hobby is a form of social proof –– so again, it needs to be social. You can't hide your sexy hobby and expect it to have any power
5-Not only is a sexy hobby a great way to meet women, a sexy hobby also serves an important secondary purpose: by meeting a constant supply of new women just by doing something you love and are good at, you will have more "sexual leverage" when you meet and start dating the woman you want to marry
6-A sexy hobby is a fun activity you have the right to do, so even though you understandably give up other freedoms when you get married, your sexy hobby is something that should survive. So even though you are now married and monogamous, your sexual power (your sexy hobby) balances out her sexual power (her pussy).
7-Even when you get married and are more "domesticated", having a sexy hobby can help you maintain a "wild side", even a "mysterious" side –– which is very important to keep a spark in the marriage
I am learning psychology for a long time.
Not even counting how many years went into it.
Today, I am sharing with you, my insight.
Just one insight - on the base of which the entire psychology is formed.
And this will help you in every area of your life including getting girls.
It is so actionable, you can start using it right after reading this thread.
This is not true
Jeff Bezos became incredible and look who he ended up with
Tom Brady became incredible and got cheated on
Will Smith became incredible and is living in fear
A man should be always improving his value and increasing his skills
But if he doesn’t understand the dark side of female nature, he will suffer
He will suffer at the hands of a ruthless feral woman
You can say: your mobile cover is unique to a totally unknown girl.
You can say: your hair looks amazing to a girl you have talked 2-3 times.
You should compliment on the things she has if you don't know her enough.
You should compliment on her if you know her enough.
It's funny how women are depicted as complex and men as simple.
A girl shows she's available and even if the guy isn't really into her, he'll seize the opportunity.
A guy asks a girl out but if she's not really into him, she'll come with excuses not to meet.
Women are simple.
@talkindiangirls The ratio is what makes it work I think. That's hard to find i guess and will differ from different individuals and will vary with the different girls. Double chaos in my perspective. So lot of calibration needed
Recollect all the times when you did not take action in fear.
Now, recollect all times when you acted out of courage, even feeling fearful inside.
You'll 100% love the times when you acted of out courage.
Time be courageous again.
Act out of courage even when you feel fear.
@LaocoonofTroy > if this guy can do it...
Not the way to see it.
ASK: What does he know about women that I don't?
She likes him for a reason. She has options, so he is doing something very right (even if "internet photos" don't make it easy to see).
@KevinatTheGuild How to reply back XD?
I am thinking something like
"Id want 6 of them but this lack this thing and its number one priority, this or nothing" and it'll be thing they can't provide