If a pastor uses a scripture the wrong way I just won't agree and let it slide but if you ask me if I have a question I'm going to ask how does what work if jesus himself said. And read the scripture right out the bible and I ask in a calm, an polite.
It's funny how I ask a question in church because the visiting pastor asked if anybody had a question in a small group. And I asked him about a scripture that contradicted what he was preaching so now he says I have a rebellious spirit.