I would give anything for a majorly toxic 24/7 work commitment job rn. Tf was I doing looking for a work/life balance? I have no life!?!?!! Literally!!??!!??
“They say that home is where the heart is, and mine has never been anywhere other than with you. Forever and always, my heart is yours and will be with you no matter what.”
Including being mindful of what we say to each other & other ppl, setting boundaries with other people, and not doing roasting that is borderline hurtful. Lol
Mature love looks like:
1. Asking for what you want, directly
2. Accepting that your partner can't meet every need
3. Encouraging a partner to do things that makes them feel fulfilled
4. Learning how to have difficult conversations
5. Taking responsibility for how you react when upset
6. Giving and taking space as needed
7. Creating stability through doing what you say you'll do
Also, I can't move on from how your so would rather compliment his ass off to other ppl - even better than when he used to do it to you. And when expressing your reaction you're just being unreasonable and weird and shallow and weak
Online shopping is sm fun. I mean you're having the worst day and then you get this noti that your parcel is on the way. Ah can't wait to see u my baby 🫶
Let’s normalize direct emotional communication:
- “I’m going to be spending some time away from my phone the next couple of weeks, I won’t be texting much”
- “I’m focused on my career right now, and I can’t really be in the middle of this”
- “I’m going to take some space tonight, I’m feeling a little off and need some me time”
- “I have a ton going on right now, I’m not in a headspace to help out”
- “Hearing this is triggering because my resources are low, do you have anyone else who can support you?”
- “I’m still working through how I feel. I need a more couple of days before we have this conversation.”
I’m a date lover. I love coffee dates, romanticizing going a walk, romanticizing reading & sharing silences, cooking dates, grocery shopping dates, painting dates, wine + food + good conversation dates, museum dates, dates in nature. All types of dates with myself and others
Sometimes u get so frustrated at that very person you miss a lot. I mean why can't they just cancel all of their plans & just be w u & shower all of their attention on u only