@Dried_Urethra Wtf is wrong with yall niggas blood? Let people enjoy conventions or whatever they like you’re wild asf for calling shorty out her name , she looks like she’s having a good time enjoying herself and you’re out here on some bullshit
@wheresjady Lol that’s what they are honestly a whole bunch of short term loans. I’d say check your credit score , see if you’re pre approved for any cards if not open up a secured credit with your local credit union and that’ll be a start. Hmu if you need anything
the BDSM community is not a playground for ego-driven or reckless behavior. casual indulgence is ok only when all parties have mutually agreed. and even then, respect and accountability are non-negotiable. when Dominants treat the community carelessly, they create space for predatory behavior.
one of the greatest issues i see is how easy it is for people to cosplay as Dominants without any true understanding of the lifestyle. they imitate the likeness of
D/s while lacking the discipline, responsibility, and integrity required to live it.
this is why red flags cannot be ignored. whether they come from a Dominant or a submissive. this lifestyle is more than kink. it demands alignment in values, daily habits, communication, and commitment. titles and aesthetics mean nothing without integrity and consistency behind them.