Don’t invalidate people’s struggles because you’ve been through worse. If someone is tired after working for 5 hours and you worked for 7, it doesn’t mean that they’re not allowed to be tired. It doesn’t mean they can’t feel what they’re feeling just because you’ve had it worse.
This year has been getting harder and harder. If you find yourself not having the right words to say, let yourself be. It's not always gonna be okay, sometimes it's not okay and that's fine. But I hope you continue to find moments to inhale and exhale despite it all.
if you need to hear it, then this is for you: forgive yourself for your regrets. you have grown since then, changed since then, and learned from your mistakes. you’re not the same person anymore, so here is your signal. it’s time to let the pain go.
Sometimes we choose to be cold. It doesn’t mean that we are heartless, or that we don’t love, or that we don’t feel anything. We just build a wall to protect ourselves from being hurt from the wrong people. We act cold but seek for someone that is able to lit the fire within us.