Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel

Correcting the problematic dualisms of modern philosophy on a daily basis.

[Shadows of Control @shadows_control]

My abusive husband never told me what I should wear, but I ended up avoiding the clothes he didn’t like anyway 😣This is how coercive control works…

One day, I came to the kitchen wearing a black blouse My husband screwed up his face and asked me why I was wearing black (he believed it was the color of evil). He said I looked ugly in that blouse and that he didn’t like it. I told him that was fine, he didn’t have to wear it.

Then he brought our 5-year-old son into the room. “Mummy doesn’t look good in black, does she?” he asked our child. Looking at his father and knowing very well that it’s best to agree, he nodded. “Yes, black is not a nice color mummy,” he told me.

Fuming that he’d involve our child, I told him he is not to comment on my clothes again, nor involve our child. And that set him off… He lectured me for 2 hours on how I should work on my reactions to improve myself, how he has a right to give his views, and so on. In total, the discussion about the blouse lasted 3 hours. 😤

A month later, I was choosing my outfit, and I went to reach for my black blouse, but then I hesitated. Was it worth it the hassle? Did I really have the energy to go through all that again? I decided I didn’t and I chose something else.

And this is exactly how coercive control works. You learn to choose the easier option just to keep the peace and avoid the negative consequences. And bit-by-bit you fall in line with how they want you to be, until eventually there is no part of you left. Everything about ‘you’ is exactly how they want it.
#coercivecontrol #emotionalabuse

[Nataaa @Nataaa2022]

fuck fuck fuck - elron muskie keeps driving the foul stench of Trump supporting MAGA numskulls into my streams - gah!

Go fuck yourself @elonmusk

[ᗰᗩƳᖇᗩ @LePapillonBlu2]

Life makes us too tough sometimes, but we can’t lose our empathy towards others.

[Osamuskwasis Roan @Nativetoday_]

Need a big """YESS""" from true fan ❤️🙏

[Dark Nakano🍄✨🪶🖼️ 🎨 🖌️ @nakanotekeko]

Sunset last night in the high desert 🏜️

[Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel @RPM_Memes_]

Shu Qi and Hugh Jackman in Toyota Levin commercial HD (2014) https://t.co/GDro0DJ9Bh via @YouTube

[Dark Nakano🍄✨🪶🖼️ 🎨 🖌️ @nakanotekeko]

My friend @Kane007 continues to impress.

Congratulations 🎉🍾🎈🎊 Brad!

[Lakota Man @LakotaMan1]

Please join me in honoring the 175 Native American soldiers who, along with many of your brave grandfathers, fought fascist tyranny in Normandy, France, on this day June 6th 1944.

[YASAKA MISAKI @Yasaka_339]

急遽ブロマイド買って、公演終わりにダッシュで100均寄ってシールとケース買って、ホテルで夜中にデコり始めたのも良い思い出😌

[Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel @RPM_Memes_]

@_hanaxcho_ 🥰

[Emma-Jayne 🌻 @emmajayne7586]

Feel cute: might delete later 👊🏼🫣

[YASAKA MISAKI @Yasaka_339]

いまからパーティーや！！
11代目卒業おめでとう🎉
わいもフレンズも全通お疲れ様🫶
みんなみんなありがとう！お疲れ様！
かんぱーい！！

[Democratic Wins Media @DemocraticWins]

BREAKING: New polling from Data for Progress shows President Biden defeating Donald Trump. President Biden’s poll numbers rise every day as Donald Trump’s plummets. Let’s go.

[Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel @RPM_Memes_]

#ChickenShit

[Rep. Eric Swalwell @RepSwalwell]

It’s over. Donald Trump has a right to not testify. Yet he PROMISED he would. Now it’s clear he won’t. The jury can’t consider this. But you can. He is chickenshit and you should conclude he’s guilty as hell.

[sarah 🕸♡ @VampireGhuleh]

Didn’t feel like getting out of bed today but I managed to get to the gym, smash my workout, and then went for a lovely walk in the woods! I am strong! I deserve to feel proud! 🥰💪🖤

[sarah 🕸♡ @VampireGhuleh]

What do you think of my everyday look? Just my glasses, skincare, a little bit of mascara, a pop of lipgloss, and I’m ready to go !! ☺️🖤