april, strengthen my roots and prepare me to bloom without apologizing for how much space my flowers take up. teach me to grow in the direction of my own light, and leave behind every version of me that was only watered by fear of being too much. be the grace i owe myself.
Ye performed “CANT TELL ME NOTNING” to his sold out crowd at SoFi Stadium and was so impressed with the crowd, he ran it back 🔥
“yall loud as a motherf*cker tonight… we gotta run this back…” https://t.co/9GYnepAf8F
march, sharpen my intentions and cut ties with confusion, filter my thoughts with love until peace begins to drip from my energy. protect my spirit from fear that travels faster than truth and allow me to release what lives beyond my reach. keep my integrity louder than worry.
february, funnel what is meant for me in my direction and filter out anything that asks me to abandon my peace. anchor me in alignment when temptation invites me backward and remind me why i chose myself the first time. allow me to stay loyal to my growth, without guilt.
I think most people get married for the wrong reasons, including love.
If people treated committed relationships & marriages like corporate jobs... they would treat them with greater respect & they would last longer.
Anywho... here's a short video of a gent who has been married for 17yrs explaining what he thinks of modern marriages.
Thank you to Women for Change for raising the topic of GBV in South Africa.
It's helped some of us raise our own concerns...
- The term GBV is bullshit coz it's only about adult female victims... not men ¬ children.
- Men are 5 times more likely to be murdered than women.
- 70% of children under 5 are murdered by their mothers (less than 6% by their fathers).
- 30% of children under 18 are murdered by their mothers (6% by their fathers).
- SAPS does not report on the race & gender demographics of perpetrators, fueling the propaganda.
- 50% of murdered women are killed by their lovers, but no-one wants to discuss why, so we can fix this.
- Most men are also scared of evil/dangerous men & women. Having a penis doesn't make you immune to violence nor fear.
- Emotional & verbal abuse are forms of violence. Women prefer these forms of violence.
- Men are not adequately taught how to deal with stress, societal pressure, infidelity & abuse from women.
- When women kill men, they are sold as isolated events... but when men kill women, all men get branded as potential killers.
- NGOs are funded, including by foreign agencies, to push the narratives, which cause good men to be attacked unfairly.
- There is NO femicide (targeted killing of women) in South Africa. You're 5 times less likely to be killed, if you're a woman.
- There are very few men's shelters or male assistance organizations.
- Women are prioritized when it comes to empowerment, funding & jobs.
- Culture still demands that men provide (more), in a society where men don't have access to jobs & business opportunities.
- Some children are denied access to their fathers, which messes up their development & mental health.
- False paternity, false rape accusations & false assault allegations are all extreme forms of violence.
- There is no national crisis for alcohol abuse & drugs... substances that exacerbate violence.
- This whole agenda is aimed at painting ALL Black men as monsters.
- Men don't open assault cases against women, which lopsides data.
- Men don't open sexual violation cases against women, which makes it seem like they are not violated.
- We need to treat all murders & assaults equally, and not give women special treatment. That's sexist.
Again, thank you to Women for Change for raising this topic, so that some of us can also share our views 🙏🏽❤️
What happened to Alabuga? Was it a scam or not?
Where are the Guptas currently? Has Lamola stopped pretending to chase them?
Is the NSFAS girl in jail? Unfairly prosecuted.
What happened to loadshedding? Like, for real real?
Where is Oscar Pistorius?
What happened to Covid & monkey pox?
What's the latest with P. Diddy?
What happened to the Cwecwe case?
Did anyone get arrested when it came out that all the big South African banks were rigging currencies?
What happened to Moody’s and other ratings agencies, after Zuma left?
Why does South Africa still have among the highest data charges and highest bank charges in the world?
Why did the IEC voting board freeze for 2 hours? Hehehe
Who shot Donald Trump's ear? And who killed Charlie Kirk... honestly?
Where can we get a list of all farms owned by/leased to ANC & other politically-connected people?
What happened to Gayton McKenzie's Covid relief list for entertainers?
Where are Chidimma Adetshina's parents currently? And were they charged?
What happened to Tokyo Sexwale's Multi-trillion Rand White Spiritual Boy Fund?
So basically, all the foreign-owned spaza shops are now registered and legit?! Lol
Where are the Epstein files?
So the US Dollar should be R7 according to the SARB, yet nothing will actually happen?
It's crazy that most South Africans don't know Billy Rautenbach, Ivor Ichikowitz, Fana Hlongwane, Jean-Yves Ollivier, Natie Kirsch and Lord Robin Renwick.
So many unknown things and unanswered questions... the goldfish forget so easily & hop onto the next trending story...
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