Nobody grew up with the intention of being a cleaner, cashier, or security guard. We all had big dreams, but life happened. Young men, Respect other people’s jobs.
You can be veryyyyy popular at your workplace bro, but trust me, if you're laid off today, no one from work will call you after 1 week. Avoid gossip. Don't brag. Do your job. Get paid. Go home!
as a programmer, the worst thing you can have is some form of online addiction
be it social media, binge watching youtube, some tv show or even worse pornography
give up this degenerate weakness and just:
To me, graduation is a lot more than completing a phase in school; it is a transition to a whole new phase in the life-cycle that is very different from the phase you are leaving.
Graduation from high school to college is a big step toward independence and freedom, and graduating from high school or college to work is a much bigger transition. It takes you from the first phase in life of being dependent on others and following instructions to the second in which you are independent, working to be successful, and having others increasingly dependent on you.
You will be exposed to the real world rather than studying about it in a protected environment. The paths and choices that will be available will be much more wide-ranging compared to what you are used to. You won't yet know how to approach these choices and you probably will think you're a more capable decision maker than you are.
You are entering a whole new phase of self-discovery and discovery of how the world works. I urge you to be very open-minded and curious and ask others who have successfully navigated this phase for advice. This is the phase in which you should prioritize gaining a broad understanding through open-minded exploration before you decide what you want to focus in on.
I suggest that you take my free personality test, PrinciplesYou, to learn more about yourself to help you to identify and pursue a good path for you: https://t.co/BZl5TdeDkh
I also suggest that you learn to meditate to give yourself the equanimity, common sense, and creativity to help you navigate this new phase well.
Finally, make sure to reflect on how reality works and think about and write down what your principles are for dealing with it well.
Congratulations on what you have accomplished and enjoy the new adventure that's ahead!