Sometimes “locking in” looks like sitting in the sun and remembering that your life is also meant to be lived, not just optimized, monetized, and turned into proof that you’re worthy.
also a lot of you want dating without risk of getting hurt
but that simply does not exist
to be in a relationship is to put yourself in a vulnerable position, theres no way around that
The reason you’re unhappy is that you haven’t found the right thing to buy. There’s something out there you can purchase that will make this all go away