I passed all 5 ICAN stages at once while juggling school and tech.
It cost me blood, sweat and tears (yes, l cried when l needed to 😅)
I paid the price.
I became chartered while in 200l!
I fell in love with this scripture:
“There will come a time when your tears will fall, not because of your troubles, but because God has answered your prayers.”
— 𝖧𝖠𝖡𝖠𝖪𝖪𝖴𝖪 𝟤:𝟥
I hope you’re never at the mercy of anyone.
But if life happens and you do find yourself suddenly at their mercy, I hope they’re actually merciful to you.
I hope they are kind. I hope you get the help you need from them without being abused, shamed or taken advantage of.
THIS NEEDS TO BE PRAYED OUT LOUD:
Father, I lay down every financial burden, every debt, every wrong decision, and every season of lack before You.
I surrender every mistake I have made financially and every opportunity I lost through ignorance, fear, delay, or disobedience.
Lord, by Your mercy, restore me.
Rebuild every area of my finances that has been broken.
Renew my mind concerning money, stewardship, and provision.
Where there has been dryness, let there be abundance.
Where there has been delay, let there be speed.
Where there has been struggle, let there be divine help.
Father, open doors no man can shut.
Give me wisdom to create, manage, and multiply resources.
Disconnect me from financial cycles of loss and frustration.
I decree that lack will not define my future.
I will not drown in debt.
I will not live in fear concerning provision.
Jehovah Jireh, arise and show Yourself strong in my life.
Let restoration locate my finances, my business, my work, and my household.
What took years to lose, restore by Your power.
Give me grace to recover, rebuild, and rise again.
In Jesus’ Mighty Name, Amen.
Being strict is gold!
I hacked it 4 years ago
Let's say I have an exam to prepare for and I need 4 hours a day to read, this is what I do
I drop my phone off for that 4 hours and nothing. absolutely nothing can make me pick my phone up that time. In that 4 hours even if Elon Musk calls I won't pick. All calls are ignored, all texts are ignored.
People get offended, but it don't matter to me because I have studied and passed my exams.
I apply this to every other thing I want badly.
I lock in, block ALL the noise and focus.
It offends people who try to reach out to me, but I don't care.
Its my life
People don’t realize that you can actually push someone so far that they no longer want anything to do with you anymore. This applies to friendships, relationships, or even family. Sometimes, people assume that because you love them, whether as a friend, partner, or family member you will continue to tolerate anything, disrespect, neglect, hurtful actions , lack of effort, or emotional stress.
Everyone has limits, and there is only so much one person can take before they choose peace over connection.
Even the most patient, kind-hearted person can reach their breaking point. When someone continuously feels unappreciated, misunderstood, or mistreated, they can reach a place where they emotionally disconnect. And once someone emotionally disconnects, it is very hard to repair that relationship.
Along the way somebody was gracious enough to take a chance on you because you had the right attitude even if you didn't have the skills to match. It's only right you extend the same grace to someone else.
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.