To break a toxic pattern you have to be honest with yourself about the role you played in creating it and how much you participate in your own suffering.
The best part of being authentic is that there is no image to maintain. You will delight some & disturb others, & none of it will concern the truth of your being.
you can’t think about bullshit all day and expect greatness from life, that’s not the way it works. your thoughts ripple in energetic currency & it comes right back to you.
My girls know they have a vagina and dad has a penis and that those are our private places that no one can touch without our consent and we keep covered. We talk about it pretty often during changes and potty training