Ain't no living together. That shit is dead.💯 If you want a key, & I trust you, then that’s fine. But you keeping yo house and Im keeping mine. If we decide on marriage then we can talk about combining households. Other than that, We keeping shit separate, Idc give me time to miss you..cause 1st off I be needing space & second, ain't nobody go have the power to put me out knowing I don't got nowhere to go. End of story.‼️ I don’t see how y’all be rushing to move in with somebody 💯
Chasing someone to prove your worth or to keep them around is a trauma response, not love. You don't have to beg or force anything that's genuinely meant for you. The right person will bring you peace, not confusion. Healing really begins the moment you stop needing to be chose & start choosing yourself. & when you finally outgrow that version of you, the one who tolerated less, it hits different. Their words no longer move you. Their actions don't shake you. You've found the strength to want more, to expect more. The thought of settling disgusts you, & although you're scared, you're ready for the life you deserve. It's everything!