I like women because of how ruthless they are when it comes to choosing themselves. Women put themselves first, unapologetically. They are insensitive in situations that require empathy, privacy, or genuine respect for the person affected.
There’s no scenario where a woman wouldn’t put herself first. Whether it hurts you or not is irrelevant. Men should learn from them.
The second you let a woman’s emotional temperature dictate your daily focus, you have surrendered leadership.
If she is distant and you panic, she wins.
If she brings drama and you match her volume, she wins.
She is subconsciously testing to see if your baseline can be shattered by her weather. Look her in the eye, remain an immovable stone wall, and provide steady direction.
Life teaches you detachment the hard way. Nothing truly belongs to you. People change, moments pass. Love can be here one day and gone the next. Savor every bit of it while it’s present, but don’t cling too tightly. When things shift, release them. When the energy starts to fade, step back and guard your peace.
Brother, don't text her if she's ignoring you. Let her be.
If she doesn't reach out, she doesn't care. And you shouldn't run after someone who can forget you easily.
Because a woman will always show up for the man she truly wants.
You double text. You triple text.
"You good?" "Did I do something?" "Talk to me." SHE SAW IT AND SHE LEFT YOU ON READ.
A woman in love is loud about it. She moves her schedule to see you. She loses sleep just to hear your voice.
If she can go days without hearing from you, she can go a lifetime. Believe her. Put the phone down.
Men in true love, it’s terrifyingly beautiful.
When you become a man’s favorite woman, he does everything for you. He skips hangouts with friends, he laughs at your silly tantrums and becomes a child himself just to match your mood.
He gives up his favorite seat by the window, shares the best piece of food from his plate, and somehow, he learns patience… because love makes him gentle.
A man in love wants only one thing: for his woman to stay happy. And in that smile of hers, he finds every dream fulfilled.
A man who understands female nature deeply will never waste his energy being angry at a woman.
Once you comprehend their behavior and underlying motives, everything makes sense.
Anger becomes pointless because you see the game for what it is and refuse to be shaken by it.
The moment you lose your temper, you hand them power. Stay composed, master your reactions, and the outcome will always remain in your control.
Being too nice to your girlfriend/wife bores her. Why? Because, simply put, niceness, for women, is a monotonous experience. And routine is boring - or, more safely put, less stimulating.
Women may be delusional, but “if he won’t do it, another man will” is not a delusion; it’s a fact they can back up with their experience of the society. Women enjoy benevolence from everyone and everything capable of such - the men, the society, the system - except nature, apparently.
So women know what they’re saying when they say, “if he won’t do it, another man will.” Because, truly, a man will.
Offer a woman a kind gesture at 4 p.m. on a Monday, and you’re probably the fifth person, and most and most certainly the fourth man, doing something of that nature for her that day. Do the same for a man at the same time, same day, and you’re probably the first and only man to have done something of that nature for him that day - and possibly in the previous days.
The man appreciates the gesture more, not only because he understands what it takes to expend such effort, but also because of its rarity in his experience. The woman, on the other hand, may appreciate it but will never give it the same level of significance as the man. She gets it every day from almost anyone. Anyway.
Your niceness will not sustain the attraction
Woman
• changes her name
• changes her home
• leaves her family
• moves in with you
• builds a home with you
• gets pregnant for you
• pregnancy changes her body
• she gets fat
• almost gives up in the labour room due to
• the unbearable pain of childbirth
• even the kids she delivers bear your name
Till the day she dies, everything she does—cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefits you—sometimes at the cost of her own health, hobbies and beauty.
Dear men, appreciate the women in your lives always.
Revenge for women is easy.
She replies to one of 100 dudes in her DMs, smash.
As a man, revenge is a lonely road, full of shattered dreams, sleepless nights, and silent battles nobody sees.
Years later, when she’s still chasing attention and you’re living the life your pain paid for, that’s when the score settles itself.
The best revenge isn’t getting even.
It’s becoming the man she never thought you’d become.
1. Always assume your woman is for the streets until she proves otherwise.
2. Never ask twice, she heard you the first time.
3. "Busy" is a myth. Never fall for "I'm busy."
4. If she controls the sex, she controls the relationship.
5. If you have to tell another man that your woman is your woman, then she hasn't made it clear enough. Let her go.
6. Always believe in yourself the same way you believed she slept for 14 hours.
7. Never let her breadcrumb you. That's dangerous.
8. Everything a woman does is intentional. Don't be fooled.
9. If you give her a crown, she'll treat you like a clown.
10. Always stay 100 steps ahead of her so when she fucks up, you'll be like, "lol" and move on.
11. Hide your emotions at all costs so all your manliness is not yet lost.
12. Never fall for "He's just a friend." He's never just a friend, but waiting for the right time to spread her butt cheeks. I, Yemi, know what I did when I was "just a friend".
13. Young women are like water, they take the shape of the vessel. Become the right vessel, and she'll pour herself into you.
14. Men chase championships. Women chase champions. Never close your options, because whether married or in a relationship, women never close their options.
15. Every girl has two boyfriends. The one she's fooling, and the one who is fooling her. Choose the position you want to be in.
16. Stop negotiating with emotional women. Every time you bend to keep her calm, you sell a piece of your authority. Strong men don't explain their worth, they embody it.
17. There are millions of her, but only one of you. Don't cage yourself with a scarcity mindset.
18. Stop emotional investing in recreational women. You can't fix what's designed to entertain.
19. The man who makes her earn affection has her mind. But the man who gives it away loses both her and himself.
20. "Real love" are just two English words, stop paying too much attention.
The game is sold, not told. Understand the game, stay rational, and act accordingly.
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Stay focused on you and your daily bread. 💰
When you start making good money, save it. Especially in the beginning. Save as much as you can. You'll desire things. New car, new watch, designer clothes to show the world you made it. And dumb philosophies will try to justify it. YOLO, life is short. Don't pay attention. Don't change anything. Save for a few years. And one day you'll notice, the urgency is gone. The anxiety... gone. You go to a restaurant, and you stop looking at the right side of the menu. You plan a holiday and you don't wait 3 weeks for cheap flights. Someone made you an offer that doesn't feel right, and you say no without thinking twice. That's what happens when you overcome instant gratification. It will give you peace to move at your own pace. A little patience, that's all you need. And it will give you something that no material object can ever match: a calm nervous system.
DO NOT DATE WHILE:
- You're broke
- You're out of shape
- Your mind is a mess
- Your habits are weak
- Your life has no direction
Fix your foundation first.
The right person respects stability
6 rules every man should know:
1. Never trust anyone 100% especially not when tears are involved.
2.Don't introduce her to your family unless you're sure she's staying.
3. Learn to live alone. Anyone can leave at any time.
4. Invest in yourself - not in people who only take from you.
5.If they betrayed you once, they'll do it again. No second chances.
6. Keep your money, your plans, and your weaknesses private. No one needs to know everything.
My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not actually here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
According to psychology some people will actually never reach out and speak to you again because they don't have the maturity to cope with the fact that they did you wrong and you didn't deserve it. Since they lack accountability, they will create a made-up narrative about you so they don't feel bad about themselves.