I was also given a task which I had to do daily 5 days prior to the session. This made things more exciting.
The task also had another element which helped us connect better.
An info thread of serving a dominatrix abroad
Country: Singapore
Cost: 25k INR/hr
Requirements: References from 2 doms I had served before
Mode of reaching out: Email.
A well crafted email makes a good first impression. This was pre ChatGPT era btw.
The session wasn't just restricted to the 1hr I had booked. We got on a call and I had to talk her through my kinks and limits, any health issues I had etc.
The only other time I can think of when I crossed my limit sitting on my bed was when watching Amazon Goddess Harley's videos about cuckolding (that's my limit). Somehow, I enjoyed those videos and even to this day I can watch only her videos about cuckolding without disgust.
The biggest scam in the Indian femdom scene is the initial tribute
If I were to think from a dom's pov - they receive 100s of DMs and the only way to filter is by initial tribute. They save a lot of time and money.
I totally get that and it is a simple solution benefitting them.
This also brings in a sense of trust and genuity. By this I can make out if she's the right one for me and I am sure subs wouldn't think twice paying the tribute upfront