@KatjaThePapist Sex is not gross, and repressing it is unhealthy. What he did was inappropriate and out of place, but if you're not attracted to men at all then maybe you shouldn't be dating. I'd be very disappointed if I married a woman only to find out she wasn't attracted to me.
@worftakesduras@imoutopantsu Both of you fail to understand that the drive to seek sex outperforms the need to reproduce, much like the drive to eat often outperforms caloric necessity. It's a hunger that you have to figure out how to feed in order to maintain emotional equilibrium.
@imoutopantsu Because of that, it consumes a big portion of our attention. Does it need to? Not necessarily, but it is as vital as eating food which I'm going to guess you've never not done for longer than a day.
@imoutopantsu Hold up. Regardless of your feelings one way or the other, sex is EXTREMELY important. Without it, you are a genetic dead end. Unless you have a higher purpose that benefits the species as a whole, reproduction is the highest purpose you can have and I will die on that hill.
@I_love_snailsss This point is exactly what broke that delusion in me. There are nine US states that have more cattle than people. They aren't going to spend all that money raising cows just to go through all the trouble to feed us people instead.