When a ngga peep you got a soft spot for him, he stop protecting your heart and start testing how much you’ll tolerate. Once he know you ain’t leaving easy, he gone do you dirty with no hesitation. Your tears turn into background noise to a mf that already comfortable hurting you
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
i watched a man beg me to trust him, beg me to let my guard down, beg me to believe he was different, just for him to turn around and do the exact same shĩt. he held me every night, looked me dead in my eyes, told me he loved me, and still lied without blinking. that kind of betrayal rewires your heart. it makes you question love, trust, and even yourself. but one thing it taught me? never ignore your intuition. ever.
My boyfriend always uses "we" statements whenever i'm stressed, scared, or having my own issues. like "we will figure this out" or "we will get through this" so i know i'm never alone and that i always have him and i think that's really important.
A cheating man is bad enough.
But you know what’s even worse?
A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.