do u really, truly, genuinely, deep in ur heart think that the same person who had u up crying at night, scrambling for an explanation as to how they could treat u so horribly and as if ur undeserving of BASIC human decency is like...ur destiny? that’s ur king? ur future? fuck no
stop telling new lovers about your past and how you allowed so many things to break you because you’re only teaching them how to break you even more. when you show how far someone can go with you they will test their limits!
for relationships to last you really gotta see your partner’s point of view of things .and be considerate. And be willing to grow. people can learn from their mistakes it’s all about communication & understanding .
The older I get, the more I reach the conclusion that most problems within a relationship can be resolved with emotional intelligence and good communication, only IF both parties have the same intention: to find solutions.