Dee_RealAlonie

Fashion Designer
Passionate story teller

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Whenever I see these arguments, I always ask one question. What exactly do you mean by "Yoruba culture"?
I have been watching Mount Zion productions, especially Abejoye, for quite a while now, and nowhere have I seen them portray Yoruba culture itself as evil.

[Ìfẹ́ṣọlá @kootujirian]

Here we go again with the same stupid, tired propaganda.

Mount Zion and others need to understand that the era of demonizing Yoruba culture and spirituality is over. People are educating themselves now, and these old narratives will no longer go unchallenged.

Respect your faith, but stop turning Yoruba culture into the villain of every story.

For over three decades, films like this have profited from portraying Yoruba spirituality as evil while presenting foreign religious worldviews as inherently good. Yet many of the social problems facing society today clearly weren’t solved by that propaganda.

Mike Bamiloye built a successful career from this formula, moved his family abroad, and now returns to sell the same story again. The difference is that people are now asking questions, and many are no longer willing to accept these portrayals without scrutiny.

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Very soon, assertiveness will be the most sought-after skill in a company.

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Learning how to express yourself without sounding rude is a skill we all underrate and the society is gradually loosing it moral compass as a result of that.

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

We call it names like being "blunt", "saying things just as it is" but it's all a facade you're just being rude and arrogant.

[Sam Otigba @SamuelOtigba]

Anything built from a place of love will last.

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

@Kwikport_ Great initiative 👏

[Godswill Oyor @GodswillOyor]

Say this with me:

Dear God,

David stained his hands and Peter broke his word, yet mercy did not resign them from destiny. Father, where I fractured trust through immaturity, please restore and reintroduce me to my assignment.

Where I squandered sacred opportunities through inconsistency, clothe me again with discipline, depth, and the dignity of stewardship.

Baba, na you dey restore fallen kings and recommission trembling apostles and you're also the author of my story.

So please don't let my misjudgment mutate into permanent limitation. Let your mercy interrupt what pride & foolishness almost destroyed.

Thank you sir.
Amen

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

@SamuelOtigba Happy Birthday Sam

[Godswill Oyor @GodswillOyor]

Quick questions Chief,
If God audited your 2025 calendar, would it prove stewardship or distraction?

If your prayer life became your profit margin, would you still be liquid?

If God withdrew His presence but left your 'success', would you notice?

#Kingdompreneur

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

from EVERYBODY before moving.
But sha, we reached Oshodi in peace and not in pieces 😂😂

Lagos humbled me and my ancestors yesterday.

What’s the most chaotic thing you’ve ever seen inside a Danfo?

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Lagos is NOT for the gentle 😭

I was coming from my training center at Ikeja. I trekked from Harmony Enclave down to the Ikeja Train Station (the one after the BRT terminal), because that’s literally the only place I can enter Oshodi bus for 300 naira.

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Then driver started asking for money.
That’s when the real madness began.

People refused to pay 😭
One old woman even said, “Driver please help us nah, abeg collect 100 naira.”
Driver said lai lai.
He parked by the roadside and insisted on collecting his money

[The Biblical Man @Biblicalman]

My wife and I almost lost our marriage to a friendship.

Not an affair.

Not another man.

Her best friend.

It started small.

A text here. A call there.

"She just gets me."

I didn't think anything of it.

Until I noticed my wife told her things she didn't tell me.

Hard days at work. Fears about the kids. Doubts about us.

Her best friend got the real her.

I got the tired version.

The leftover version.

The one who said "I'm fine" when I asked how she was.

One night I found her crying on the phone.

With her.

Not me.

I stood in the doorway.

She didn't even notice.

That's when I realized:

I wasn't losing my wife to another man.

I was losing her to a counterfeit intimacy that felt safer than me.

No risk.

No vulnerability.

No covenant weight.

Just comfort without cost.

I sat her down the next morning.

"I feel like I'm third in my own marriage."

She got defensive at first.

"She's just my friend. You're overreacting."

But then I asked:

"When's the last time you told me something before you told her?"

Silence.

She couldn't remember.

Neither could I.

We didn't fix it overnight.

But we started.

She stopped running to her phone when she was hurting.

She came to me instead.

Awkward at first.

We'd forgotten how.

Your wife doesn't need a best friend who "gets her."

She needs a husband who pursues her.

And brother…

If she's running to someone else with her heart?

Maybe it's because you stopped being safe enough to hold it.

Your spouse should know you better than anyone on earth.

If they don't, that's not their failure.

It's your invitation.

Go get your wife back.

Not from another man.

From the counterfeit comfort she's settled for.

Because you stopped showing up.

[UNFPA Youth participatory Platform, NIGERIA @UnfpaYPPNigeria]

If your humor hurts women, it’s not funny because behind every profile is a person.
Respect her.

#endgbv #noexcuse #16daysofactivism

[UNFPA Youth participatory Platform, NIGERIA @UnfpaYPPNigeria]

Her body isn’t up for debate. Not offline, not online!🧡

#endgbv #16daysofactivism #enddigitalviolence

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

Oh the things women go through as a result of lack of self love. I mean where are the men requesting for you to remove four ribs, like four ribs ooo. Women should stop this madness and learn to appreciate themselves and their body abeg

[Peace Ighodaro💛 @peace_igho]

She removed 4 of her rips.
Oh the things women go through to look good for men. 😩😩

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

@peace_igho You meant "oh the things women goes through as a result of low self esteem right?"

[Dee_RealAlonie @Rare_Gold11]

I do not take the position of God in anyone's life. God can use anyone to help anybody. If he has used me to help people i consider it a privilege