“you shouldn’t see your bf/gf everyday”
Baby we grown now. We findin husbands. ain’t shit wrong with it cause when it’s REAL, your man becomes your BESTfriend, roommate, the person you pay bills w, make big decisions w, invest in things w, allat. We ain’t 15 nomo.
If a man starts ignoring me I will just quietly move on. No long angry messages to make him 'see my worth'. No 'he won't find someone like me' or 'he will regret it'. I collect myself and leave.
I deserve a love that is sure of me from the beginning.