@web3mamiii Have been going through your page I like how U think
Would have love to have a one on one chat with U
And this is not me coming off as trying to "shyke" U but really I like how U think
@Henrymoor1@Mrbankstips Have you ever wonder why almost all the billionaires have underground bunkers??
Something is coming and believe me they know but we donโt
Theyโre more privileged to information we canโt even fantom or even imagine
Nothing like coincidence
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A while back, I had a "perfect" friend named Esther, fondly called "Miss Coffee". Oh, she could "kill" to get a cup of coffee!
She had been planning her coffee shop for years. She had notebooks full of ideas of that "perfect"
Many people pray for opportunities.
Very few place themselves where opportunities can find them.
I could remember when I was working with a Telecommunication company back in 2022,
I had a colleague who was not experienced. He was actually a beginner in that field,
But there was something I learnt from him.
He always chooses the hardest task among us. Most times, he would put his career on the line just make sure he completes a task.
He does not work too hard like we, the over experienced, do work, but he works smart. Out of my colleagues, he was the least person anyone could think of getting promoted to a regional supervisor. He does not pray. The guy man was just unserious.
So, he was lucky to get a promotion, not that he prays a lot, but he always place himself where opportunity will find him.
Psychologically, luck is not spiritual magic.
Itโs probability.
When you expose yourself to new people, new skills, new environments, repeated attempts sometimes with risk, then you multiply the number of outcomes life can deliver to you.
Prayer may calm the mind and strengthen hope, but exposure is what creates contact. You donโt meet luck in isolation. You meet it in rooms, in attempts, in failure, in visibility.
The people we call โluckyโ are usually the ones who; showed up more times than others; stayed visible when it was uncomfortable, kept engaging when nothing was working
Luck follows movement.
Stagnation starves it.
Have you ever noticed luck increase when you put yourself out there?
A conversation between my lovely daughter and I, after I sent her a video clip from the movie "sound of music".
This is through her mother's second phone.
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We are not even noticing how fast our society is dying. In this generation,
Toxicity has been replaced with being oneself.
Terrible attitude to life is blamed on Zodiac traits. No desire to work on oneself.
Being entitled is now being woke.
You talk too much and you say it is being confident.
You are very fat and badly shaped but you dress almost NAKED, rub in peopleโs face unprovoked and call it confidence in your skin.
Arrogance is called having self worth.
Greed is being ambitious.
Crime is now called hustle.
Cheating your fellow human being is now called Street Smart.
Laziness and Indolence is now called protecting your peace.
Skin bleaching is now called skin care.
Avoiding accountability and responsibility is now called protecting your mental health.
Being inconsiderate and a total nuisance to the environment is now called being misunderstood.
Being unforgiving is now called setting boundaries.
Ingratitude replaced by knowing your worth.
Living recklessly is called living your best life.
Being selfish is now called self love.
Irresponsibility and lack of financial planning is now excused with โThe future will take care of itselfโ.
Being rude, insultive and abusive is now called being real.
Correction is being envious and judgmental.
We are basically a fast dying species who pride ourselves in advancing in civilization, living in modern age and leaving the 50s behind.
Husband calls*
Wife: Good evening babe
H: How are you?
W: Fine thank you.
H: You sound tired. What's wrong?
W: I had a busy day and I have a slight headache. Let's talk tomorrow.
H: Okay, love you.
Same Husband to his side chick:
Side chick: Good evening sir, hope your
If you're under 25 as a young man.
Your girlfriend should not be able to afford an expensive phone, hair or live above her means.
Unless she's from a home where it's obvious that her parents or siblings are responsible for her.
Or she's already working & earning good pay.
She'll not look great.
Any girl that is between 18-23, & is obviously looking flashy, & living above her means, is not your type.
Date your type, & leave them for yahoo boys & sugar daddies, & much older men that are sponsoring their lifestyle.
Or ask for her price, and pay her to fuck her.
But she can't be your girlfriend.
End.
Irrespective of the fact I hate gays alot especially homos, I'll never stand by and let any of them get beaten, that would be unkind of me....
I must definitely put hand beat the werey make en fear life๐คฃ
Today I got beaten up for being gay . Iโm so traumatized ! But Iโm glad Iโm fine . This is such a cruel world yet I wonโt allow Anyone to bring down my shine
Growth is a journey that moves through stages, and each stage teaches something that shapes who we become.
In childhood, we learn trust.
We learn how to feel safe.
We learn how to express ourselves.
These early memories can shape our confidence and how we see the world.
In the teenage years, we learn identity.
We start to understand who we are.
We face pressure from friends and society.
These moments teach independence and help us discover our values.
In young adulthood, we learn responsibility.
We learn to work.
We learn to make decisions.
We learn to survive without depending on anyone.
This stage builds strength, discipline, and focus.
In adulthood, we learn balance.
We learn how to manage money relationships and emotions.
We learn that life is not only about speed but also direction.
This stage shapes maturity.
In later years, we learn wisdom.
We understand what truly matters.
We learn forgiveness, patience, and inner peace.
We learn to appreciate the simple things.
Each stage adds a new layer to a person.
The lessons we accept or ignore in each phase will decide our mindset, our habits, and the kind of future we build.
Growth is not sudden.
It is slow but steady.
It is the result of learning from every season of life.
Shalom!!
A grown up woman is more likely to commit an abortion for men that they do not wish to get married to.
They may not even tell the men.
Problem is, when they get pregnant for the men that they wish to get married to, the men may not wish to marry them.
And should they get married because of that, resentment from the men will start to grow.
The women are reminded at the slightest provocation, how they decieved their ways into the marriage.
Yes, the man cannot escape accountability.
Especially if he's the biological father.
But you see cheating?
He will cheat carelessly on you, rub it in constantly, and treat you with disdain.
If he had a lady that he wished to marry, that lady will know all your secrets.
He would listen to her far more than he would listen to you. He would be giving her more money, & if care is not taken, he may make her his wife in absentia.
You on the other hand, would be feeling insecure, unloved, angry, vengeful, & he would push you to go and cheat.
So that he would catch you, and use it as a comfortable excuse to divorce you, & justify why he never wanted to marry you in the first place.
Put simply...
You would be walking on egg shells in your matrimonial home.
Because you did not rightfully earn your place.
However, these are what you're most likely going to experience.
But some of you may become fortunate that God may just touch the man's heart to forgive you, & forget how you became his wife, and start to treat you better.
For you to achieve this, you must first acknowledge that you did not earn your place.
Not thinking that because he has married you, then you automatically have the undeserving right to demand that you be treated like a proper wife should.
You must gradually win him over.
Convince him again and again that he did not make a mistake in marrying you, because you got pregnant for him.
Let him see the value that you bring to his life, & not just because you're the mother of his kid(s).
Stop snooping on his phones, and stop challenging him or monitoring his movements.
Stoop low to conquer, & stop forming "Oga madam".
You cannot "control" a man who doesn't want to be controlled. If you allow him time an patience, & you show reasonable degree of respect and submission, he will soften his heart towards you in due course.
For those that genuinely wanted to marry each other, marriage within the first 5 years is very rocky & challenging.
How much more you that got in just because you got pregnant and refused to abort it?
End.
Maturity is when a grown man is able to separate the love that he has for his mother, from the love that he has for his wife.
Your mother is your father's wife.
You don't sleep with your mother.
And your mother cannot give birth to your children.
If your father placed his mother above your mother, your mother would not have remained your father's wife.
And by the way..
Your father's wife is not the same as your mother.
Your real mother is your father's wife.
End.
A generation that celebrates criminality shamelessly, is bound to fail.
And that's the Gen Z generation.
You're just too young to be stealing, & acquiring things far above your age.
Give your prime a chance, & work hard legitimately.
Otherwise, you won't live long.
End.
Sex is not the reason why you should cohabit.
Sexual compatibility is.
For those of you that are already sexually active, you have sex whenever you go visit your man.
So stop pretending.
What cohabitation does for you, is that you'll learn how to still value & appreciate each other's presence, even when there is no sex for days.
This is why some of you in relationships, only visit your boyfriends whenever you're not in your period.
Some of you ladies even apologize when your period suddenly comes in your man's house.
And some men even cancel your coming to see them, when you tell them that you're in your period.
All you know is sex sex sex.
But you do not know the importance of sexual compatibility in marriage.
In marriage, sex would bore you if you're not sexually compatible with your spouse.
Would you ask for a divorce because of that?
Even if you're sexually compatible, would you be having sex everyday?
What about other things?
What about character, habits, secrets, anger management, fun, quarrels, fights, sickness etc?
You want to wait until you get married before you start experiencing all that?
Cohabitation is either a win-win or loose-win or loose-loose experience.
It's a deliberate or conscious decision that both of you must make, to be sure of what you're going into.
I recall one time, a young lady came to my DM.
She had thought that she had found the love of her life, until she went to cohabit with him.
Few days in his house, she took ill and was throwing up all the place.
Her boyfriend treated her with disdain, ordered her to wash his bedsheets and clean up his house.
She was shocked that the man she thought loved her, could suddenly behave that way.
That was how the relationship came to an abrupt end and she left his house heartbroken.
Keep your religiousity in your pocket, & do what you have to do, to make sure that you're not inching towards a ditch.
People can hide their character.
And until you start living with them, your eyes may never be opened.
Until it's too late.
End.
There is no way two adults from different homes, upbringing & experiences would come together to cohabit or be married as a man & a woman, & they'll not have a fight, quarrel or arguments.
And it starts from relationships.
If you're not ready to sow the pains, then you do not deserve to reap from the joy.
Relationship frictions are not necessarily red flags.
What is a red flag is extreme violence, threat to life, and when there is more quarrels than peace.
Do not go into any relationship, hoping that it will always be peaceful.
Otherwise, you're in a relationship where you're either pretending, not being yourself or burying the dirts under the rug to make the living room look beautiful.
Your partner must provoke you.
Your partner will test your resolve, & sometimes, do the unexpected.
This is how you train each other to learn how to tolerate yourselves.
And then, you snap out of it, and keep pushing.
I have always taught that the first 5 years of marriage is mostly the difficult phase.
Even if you cohabited during your relationship.
But what cohabitation will teach you, is experience.
Somethings you'd experience within your first 5 years in marriage, may not be new to you.
And you'd not have to be going out of your matrimonial homes to seek for help from "outsiders" at the slightest provocation.
Your wife may tear your boxers one day.
Your wife may seize your car keys or block the door so that you would not go out.
Your wife may refuse to cook your meal or serve you, even if she has cooked your meal.
Your wife may annoy you for nothing.
You as a man must learn tolerance, & learn that not all emotional outbursts would lead to physical violence.
Your husband may hit you out of anger.
Your husband may refuse to eat your food because you annoyed him.
Your husband may go out of the house, refuse to pick your calls, & come back very late, without responding to your greeting.
Your husband may cheat on you, too.
You as the wife, must find ways to manipulate him in a healthy way, use your feminine energy, and show him that you're still his queen, regardless.
Learn how to keep quiet when he's angry.
And learn how to speak when he's calm.
When you see couples celebrating 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 years of marriage, they're not telling you that it has been all rosy through the years.
They're telling you that they have persevered, tolerated each other and made sacrifices and compromises for each other.
Stop thinking that they performed magic.
They did not.
And even if those people are your parents, you do not know their real struggles.
What you know is what they decided to show you.
Go and get married, and see if you would do better than they did.
End.
I was just responding to a DM & something crossed my mind, which I think I need to pass to young people in relationships.
Be careful how you term misunderstandings, quarrels, disagreements as "break ups".
And some of these can linger for weeks or even a month.
Don't just give
@jon_d_doe The best way to manipulate a positively man is by being respectful and submissive, and she played it out well. Though Iโm not in support of the guy abusing her physically. Good morning Agba