this is insane. i genuinely don't understand why ambitious people aren't shown this lecture before their careers start consuming their entire lives.
clayton christensen spent his career studying why successful companies collapse. in his final class, he asked students to apply the theory to themselves: if you keep allocating your time the same way, what life are you actually building?
he had already seen the answer in his own harvard mba class. everyone looked successful at the fifth reunion; by the 10th, 15th, 20th, and 25th, many were unhappy, divorced, and living far from their children.
work shows you the score immediately. close a sale, ship a product, finish a presentation, earn a promotion, get paid.
an hour with your child may produce nothing you can measure today; it may take 20 years to understand what that hour built. so the next free hour goes back to work, one rational decision at a time.
this is how people build lives they never planned: through hundreds of right decisions that lead in the wrong direction, day after day.
money, titles, and headcount are easy to count. christensen believed a life should be measured by the people who became better because you were there.
he died in 2020.
one question remains: if someone saw only where your time, energy, and attention went this year, what would they think actually mattered to you?
the full 19-minute lecture is in the video below.
Keep a notebook. Travel with it, eat with it, sleep with it. Slap into it every stray thought that flutters up in your brain. Cheap paper is less perishable than gray matter, and lead pencil markings endure longer than memory.
—Jack London—
“A quiet secluded life in the country, with the possibility of being useful to people to whom it is easy to do good… then work which one hopes may be of some use; then rest, nature, books, music, love for one's neighbor — such is my idea of happiness.”
— Leo Tolstoy
The irony is that while here Yogendra Yadav argues for escaping 20th-century ideas, his whole politics/articles are about returning to the political instruments of that very century: Lohiaite social blocs, caste enumeration, quota expansion, and state-certified group identities.
Mumbai rickwala irrespective of which state he belongs or which language he speaks will treat you the same way and handover the exact change back in case you paid in cash. They have their own struggles to manage. Just sit in that uncomfortable seat for 12 hrs and try navigating the Mumbai traffic. I am sure most of us would not even last 2 hrs. Be it rains or mad summers they're always working and doing their job. Most of them are here in Mumbai to make some extra money over what they would earn in their own state. Respect them and in fact help them with making their life less miserable. Money they earn pays for someone's food or someone's school / college fees back home. Imagine cutting of that revenue stream just because they don't speak a certain language. And what will is solve even if they did learn the language. Just some ego satisfaction for someone somewhere. That's all. Dont hurt the poor just because you can. Try doing such with the rich. They can't and they know it. They can't do same in some areas of Mumbai too. A language mandatory rule will make so many household push their children in labour etc if the income stream is lost. Noone will understand that. Just sitting in their castles such rules are made. Every few years such rules come in and they are out into action.
P H Kurian- the man who issued India's first compulsory licence in March 2012 to allow generic manufacture of a cancer drug
It brought down price from Rs 2.8 lakh to Rs 8,800 for a month’s treatment
A rare officer who put public interest before pharma profits and had a spine
Every day, I see an elderly gentleman selling newspapers at Mandi House. I have a subscription and usually read the newspaper on my phone, yet I still make it a point to buy a copy from him whenever I can. Not because I need the newspaper, but because I deeply respect his spirit. At an age when many would choose to rest, he continues to work with dignity, self-respect and determination.
If you come across elderly people working hard to earn an honest living, please support them whenever you can.
ਕਿਰਤ ਕਰੋ, ਨਾਮ ਜਪੋ, ਵੰਡ ਛਕੋ🙏 Gurbani reminds us to earn through honest work, remember the Divine, and share with others.
The best way to contribute to nation-building is to be trustworthy and dependable in all your roles: friend, child, parent, partner, sibling, citizen, professional etc. Being trustworthy and honest helps maintain and extend the moral order beyond your own network. You belong to a system of norms and unwritten rules far larger than yourself. Acting with virtue helps keep that system alive. Not being a burden on the state is itself a contribution. Whatever order you see around is bcoz some people choose to be honest rather than opportunistic
Man has accepted conflict as an innate part of daily existence because he has accepted competition, jealousy, greed, acquisitiveness and aggression as a natural way of life.
When we accept such a way of life, we accept the structure of society as it is and live within the pattern of respectability. And that is what most of us are caught in, because most of us want to be terribly respectable.
When we examine our own minds and hearts—the way we think, the way we feel and how we act in our daily lives—we observe that as long as we conform to the pattern of society, life must be a battlefield.
If we do not accept it—and no religious person can possibly accept such a society—then we will be completely free from the psychological structure of society.
—Krishnamurti
Freedom from the Known
My wife bought a Diamond set from @TanishqJewelry in October 2024
The gold went completely black on 18 months just after one year.
We went to the showroom and they said they will get it polished and some gold will need to be added and we will need to put some extra gold.
It can back today. Gold added 0.04 gms of around Rs 500. They made a total bill of Rs 11500 which is ridiculous for a product manufacturing/ quality fault.
We have so much jewellery from this brand. Will need to be cautious in the future.
Most teachers in India think they should subject children to the rigour of mathematics but not the joy of mathematics. Which is why they perversely keep cutting marks for honest oversights and mistakes.