When someone pulls the bullshit on you, assertively speak your truth. This often makes them feel uncomfortable and they may remember this and gradually change their behavior as they interact with you. It's okay if they leave you because you have one less bullshitter in your life.
You're gaslighting me, and I know you're lying to me. And you know you're lying to me. And you know I know you're lying to me. Because I'm calling you out in real time. I'm literally exposing your lies in real time right in front of you, and you just. You keep fighting it, right?
“If you are depressed, you are living in the past.
If you are anxious, you are living in the future.
If you are at peace, you are living in the present.”
― Lao Tzu
SIGNS THAT YOU'VE LET GO
·You don't talk about them anymore
·You feel gentle happiness
·You understand why it couldn't be
·You're open to new connections
·You remember your hobbies
·You're excited about your path
·You feel good about yourself
·You're not thinking about the past
people who try to sabotage and trash talk about you are just desperate for attention, envious and jealous. don’t let them get to you like that because there is more to life than those petty people.