Raye

Built a career doing what I love, remotely. Pro Marketer & Founder of EdTech @VsavvyAcademy

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

Saw a girl on TikTok confidently teaching people how to land remote jobs. Did a little background check and realized she started her journey with us. Then saw another LinkedIn comment thanking me for opening the door to remote work for them.

I’m really who I say I am. 👏🫶🏿

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@tosinolaseinde Omo, thanks 🙏

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@lilyally98 🥹😂😂😂😂😂

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@NneNwanyiAto And this is why we always pass them. You can never catch Nigerian woman bragging about desirability like this. It’s embarrassing. 😳

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

The desperation to be desired by people all around the world often stems from low self-esteem, an inferiority complex and a lack of genuine confidence. Using how desirable you are to others as a measure of your self-worth is quite distasteful, especially when you’re the one constantly doing the approaching. It’s actually saddening to watch. Damn! 😂😭

[tanya @Tanya_Sabrinaaa]

we can't let a MAN be PRESIDENT, what if he gets HORNY and gets seduced by a CHINESE SPY

[Beloved 🕸️🦪 @Be__thebest]

I think men should have bigger ambitions.

Instead of desiring a wife who cooks and cleans for you, make it your goal to become the man who can afford a private chef and a housekeeper

[Technical Ben @TechnicalBben]

He called Nigerian women masculine and the least desirable so that means your mum fits into that narrative, and Nigerian men with huge accounts are agreeing with him. Mind you, Nigerian women are incredibly diverse in their beauty, features, and looks.

Allowing a foreigner to come here and disrespect Nigerian women like that, while some of our own men cheer him on, is absolutely crazy.

As for me let's fight at home and stop giving this weirdos such chance to have a part in our conversation.

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@layconH 📌

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

This 50/50 discourse is hilarious because men are finally realising that women don’t necessarily want them badly enough to take on the stress and responsibilities that come with relationships.

If I can pay my bills and afford my lifestyle alone, why would I add the emotional labour of nurturing, catering to, managing and accommodating another adult, only to still split bills?

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@bond_00Seven 😭😭😂

[gorl @Starcaster1]

She sold her ring to keep his company alive, fell in love with him before he had anything to his name, gave him multiple children, & her value as a wife is being boiled down to a physique comparison

no wonder women started settling for girl bossing instead of marriage

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@Phechr_Ufuomaa God! I hate the lack of orgininality, like damn! Copying them down to the whole wigs thing. And masculine? For Nigerian babes? They tried it. 😂😂😂

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@gbemilekeo_ 😂

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@ehigbai_o I don’t know o 😭😂

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@IyeBiye001 😂😭 this one self Dey

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@2WayV_ 😮‍💨

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

Not answering the yes-or-no question tells me you actually had to think about it before writing this paragraph.

Nobody is asking men to do 100%. Let’s be serious. Women have always contributed financially, from market women to professionals, business owners and women keeping households afloat.

The argument isn’t that women shouldn’t contribute. It’s that contributions don’t have to be financially equal when the physical, reproductive, domestic and societal expectations placed on women aren’t equally distributed.

Don’t demand 50/50 from a woman when you probably wouldn’t willingly accept the realities of being that woman yourself.

And Twitter being filled with men agreeing with one another doesn’t make the argument right. Men can prefer 50/50, and women can equally reject it.

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

This 50-50 financial conversation no real! And it’s so irritating. Like please let’s be Fr regardless of gender abeg!

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

@mimi_gold7 😮‍💨

[Raye @Raye_Hg]

Oh, they actually are. They really are. Like they are men who actively want you to provide 50% financially. Any woman who doesn’t want to support the home is completely flawed that’s not an argument, I teach that all the time. But any man who looks at a woman and say we will split every single bill equally, Every figures equally is crazy!! And this happens a lot you don’t know because you are not a woman! 😭😂